So, I may have had some fortune fall into my lap recently and don't want to screw it up. A girl who I randomly added on Facebook like 2 months ago messaged me out of the blue last week asking me what I was up to. She was driving the conversation and eventually asked for my number. It was very odd because we never had actually met before in person.

This chick is hot though.. Great, thin body with a plump ass. Tan as can be, great rich hair, and good sense of style as well. My guess is she probably just broke up with some other guy and by some miracle saw my FB in her news feed and sent me a message.

So I played it cool with her in texting. She was trying -so- hard, saying things like "so how is a guy like you single?" And I was being aloof but sincere as well. I asked her for a picture and she sends me a sexy-as-hell one of her in her bra and panties. And I straight up didn't respond to it for hours. She was freaking out! She sent me like 3 follow up texts saying "I know I'm a cute girl but you're making me worry!" and thingslike that.

Here's the problem...I currently have this fungal infection on my nuts called jock itch and it burns and smells terrible as well. I just started the SPAM for it, but basically I can't be banging anyone until this clears up. So even though this girl seems like a good prospect for the hottest girl I've ever nailed... I have to draw it out until I can do the nailing!

I offered to take her out on Friday and she happily agreed. I picked her up and took her out for dinner and drinks. She was pouring back the drinks and after I was about 5 beers in I decided to stop drinking since I still had to drive. But she was down to keep doing shots if I wanted! And she kept saying things to show how depserate she is like, "I hope you'll text me again after this!"

Of course something doesn't add up because she is such a hot chick. She clearly gets a lot of attention from guys, and for whatever reason is still insecure deep down.

I nailed the date though. I kept her laughing, my value was high, and we had a hot makeout session in my car afterwards. She started rubbing her hand over my pants and I'm sure if I wanted to we could have boned right then and there. Unfortunately because of my condition I had to de-escalate. She then said "I don't fuck on the first date but if I ever did, you would be the guy I would do it with!" I dropped her off at home at that was that.

Yesterday she texted me asking me to go meet her out and I ended up declining saying I already had plans. Basically, at this point I feel like the next time I see her needs to be to bang and any interaction we have in between can ruin the momentum I've built up. She sent me a sexy picture saying "is this enough motivation to get you to come out??" and I said "Haha it's very motivating but I can't flake on my friends. We'll hang again soon though!"

Well, today she has put that same sexy pic up on social media to 100 likes from horny AFCs. I texted her and we talked briefly about what our plans were for the day and she actually didn't respond to me for once.

Now I'm wondering what I should do to keep stringing this along. Ideally by Friday I'll be ready to screw. But if I just make plans for Friday and go cold until then, she seems like the type who will already be in another committed relationship by then. Any experience with this type of chick?

Best shot you have is to set up a date Thursday and fuck the living soul out of her Friday. Keep us posted though, I'm really curious how this unfolds.

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keep up with the busy and take her out on another date. Hopefully your condition clears up soon.

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Well of course the obvious says.. The came so easily, she could easily do this again.. And she very well might.. She seems like she's trying hard to get laid. She even purposely got drunk to lower her own inhibitions. The boyfriend thing is probably right. Sounds like she got cheated on and she's seeking revenge. Being in her emotional female (not thinking) state she needs to settle the plague of that emotional burden as soon as possible.

To be this sounds like God played a good ole' joke on you. He's a funny man. Laugh it off.

Now if the boyfriend wasn't the case - which i'm willing to bet it is I would say " You're the one guy that didn't fuck her when he had the chance. You have the upper hand without a doubt. If you just chill, she'll hit you up.

You gotta see what happens, but you can't pursue her anymore.

Probably the hottest girl i've ever been out with in my life I made this mistake with. It was raining hard out and we ended up on the second floor of an empty diner that forgot to lock the door. Everything happened short of the actual lay. She stopped at the last second, but said she would let slowly slide my fingers in so i could see how wet she was. Smh.. Anyway, I got like you after that night. Similar emotion.. She had told me that she was unsure of me because we moved so fast. Which was bullshit, the truth was I got too needy after getting so close to the finish with a clear 10 on the first night in an abandoned diner. All I had to do was chill out and sit back and she would come around on her own. But I hit her up being my "funny" self.. TWICE.. She called me after the second time and let me know that it wouldn't be a good idea to continue.

I never had to learn that lesson again.

So if you want a shot in hell.. Do NOT contact her again.

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You're recommending complete no contact? He hasn't done anything with her..and she's chasing him..I'd throw her little baits here and there...

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I'm absolutely asking him to not reinitiate. This isn't some normal case. Had it been, the advice would be different. She didn't respond to his last text.. He needs to wait for now and not rush to send a follow up message.

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Thanks for all the interest and replies!

I ended up texting her today, so three days after she went cold on me. She responded at length saying that she has been sick. After a bit of back and forth I told her, "Well get some sleep and soup in you because I'm taking you out again Friday!" She seemed agreeable and said she would love to do that. After a bit more chatting I ended the conversation without replying, giving me what should be a bit of an upper hand for now.

Now, I've been around the block enough times to know that there's a very significant chance I'll never see this girl again. She has an ace-in-the-hole excuse about being sick that she can use to flake on me if she chooses to. The week we haven't seen each other is light years in flippant-girl time and she easily could be back with an ex or banging a new bro by now. I know if I do get another chance with her, I'm going balls to the wall to secure the lay because she is clearly not sticking around long at all.

It's funny how the women that go to such great lengths to make themselves seem so genuine usually end up not being so at all.

I'll let you know what transpires.

Lol nice, she is definitely interested in you and you could have fully closed her if it weren't for your condition. Keep it up.

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Here's an update, as promised.

So we did end up going out on Friday. She renewed her interest in me and was posting on my FB wall the morning of (helping me to DHV to other girls which is a nice bonus). I picked her up and we went bowling/drinking.

She did a lot of talking about herself and I realized just how stupid she really is. She began telling me about her dream to become a lawyer or a doctor as if she has all the qualifications (she works at a tanning salon) and I really had to stop myself from laughing. However, she did look amazing and was getting stared at by every guy at the bar.

I steered the conversation to sex and she mentioned that she usually does it by the third date and I said "I'm more of a second date kinda guy" to which she blushed and said "okay". I felt great about my chances to get it in at this point.

We bowled a few games, I worked on the kino and things were going great. I then decided we should drink more so we went back to the bar. Suddenly, after her third drink, she began acting sick. Her voice became sniffly, she started sneezing, and she complained she wasn't feeling good. She said she felt absolutely terrible but didn't want to drink anymore.

I tried to be unfazed by this and suggested we go somewhere more quiet to just relax. She shot down my suggestion to go to her place so I offered my place to which she kind of just shrugged her shoulders. I could feel her slipping away by the second. I told her we should just go outside and see how the fresh air feels.

We get in my car and I begin aggressively kissing her. I knew the sex was probably a lost cause but at least I could salvage a car blowjob or something? She fanned out my attempts to escalate and said she really just felt sick. She may not have been lying either because she did sound sick. She said she wanted the first time we had sex to be amazing and not ruined by her sniffling and sneezing.

I regained my composure and played it off like it wasn't a big deal. "My friends have been bugging me all night to come to this pub so this actually works out for me. I'll let you get some rest!"

I dropped her off and that was that. But again, as we know, every time I see this girl there's a very real chance it is the last time, so that's why I tried so hard to capitalize. The good news is if I do see her again it's basically a foregone conclusion that we will bone. But I may have tried a little too hard this time and that generally leads to women getting turned off.

You tried to take the bull by the horns.. No shame in that. The only things that will push her away is if you're insecure and apologetic about your decision making. And i don't get that from you so you should be straight. Sound like she'll be contacting you soon.

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Yea you probably got this. Like Eddie said, no shame in going for what you want. Keep us updated on how things go down.

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Final update:

A week after she was sick I made plans to hang out with her the following day. On the day of our plans, she came up with one of the all time worst flakes I've ever received:

me: "So I'll get you around 8?"
her: "I actually have a job interview at this restuarant for a night job I'm going to hopefully be starting."

Now that annoyed me for several reasons. First of all... WTF 8 pm Friday night job interview?! Second of all, she agreed to this date the previous day and said nothing to me all day about an interview. And of course in true flaking fashion she didn't offer a reschedule. I decided to call her bluff and play it cool

me: "Oh awesome I'm sure you'll get the job! I'll even let you buy the first round after you nail the interview "
her: "well if I get the job I'm probably going to start right away"

Ugh. I hate when women insult me like this. To rub more salt in the wound, she made a facebook post an hour later saying "What's everyone doing tonight??"

I went cold for a week and tried sending a restart text, to which she didn't even respond. Rats.

And this is why I don't feel any remorse for banging girls immediately and then casting them away. Because they're bound to lose interest before long anyways so I may as well add another notch. It's just too bad I didn't seal the deal with this one