I Fclosed a girl I met through a friend in Chicago back in October. I slept with her one other time. This was over a period of 3 weeks and I then flew back to LA. We kept in contact and everything was good till she sent me an accidental text she was sending to another man with the same name, which confused the hell out of my because she was asking me to go to a bulls game when I'm 2600 miles away. It was a friendly text and when I called her out for not apologizing on the error that she had confused the hell out of me, I can see her attraction for me changed. Why wouldn't it? Let's be honest, I was jealous and needy and she picked up on it. We did do some texts back and forth at the end of December but the rythm wasn't there. I sent her a text for New Year and she responded but it was brief. She was in Mexico for the month of Jan and the beginning of feb. I sent an email and another text in mid Jan and she never responded. The 2nd and last text I sent her was on Feb 17th, which was a pic of my new born nephew because she had asked to see him when he was born. She didn't respond until this past Friday. She didn't comment on my nephew at all...she just texted "Hey how's it going", which shows me she's bored and wants a texting buddy because she was probably seeing someone during that time. Learn, Apply, modify!

The good news is that these last 2 weeks have been killer for me and I Fclosed 2 more woman. I don't want this girl as my girlfriend in Chicago but it would be nice to have a FWB type of situation while I'm there.

What should I do? I am thinking I shouldn't respond until I get another from her that shows more effort or that she is becoming needy. I could be wrong but I am trying to figure this out so any suggestions would help.

Thank you!!!

Lots of over thinking. Don't be jealous anymore, respond to her text without being needy, tell her the next time you are going to visit Chicago and schedule your meet up. She reached out to you, don't blow it by ignoring her.

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Lol

shit.. This girl must be hot if you're acting like this.

Give her space bro. Sometimes the best thing to do is to do nothing and this is definitely one of those situations. Anything extra you do this time around will be acting as a repellent. You're 2,600 miles away worrying about her? Theres guys she thinks about that are in her city that don't give two shits about her but you do? What wrong with you? - Thats how she'll see it.

You can either be the obsessed guy who can't forget her, or the cool motherfucker from LA that she can't wait to fly in again. You choose?

Currently you're being the latter.

Give her space.

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You are right, I think you should ignore her text. If she texts you again, you got game but if she doesn't, let it go bro. If you reply to her text, you'd come off as needy.

I believe in giving people a taste of their own medicine. Remember the rule " one step forward, two steps backwards". Always make her invest.

If you'd done things right from the beginning, she'll be the one chasing you despite the distance.

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I want to thank all of you for your reply. I am not going to text her back because there is an over abundance of women and honestly, it was disrespectful that she didn't at least acknowledge my nephew's pic and gave me a lame "how you doing" text. By the way, she was an HB7 and the other 2 girls I Fclosed were HB 8's so I'm getting better.