Hi everyone.
Thumbs up to you all that can get even 50% of the girls you want.
Sometimes I envy Steve wonders,he doesn't get to see d girls I see.he doesn't need to approach them.he doesn't get to admire their body like I do.
what kept you all moving when you were still an AFC??I really am surprised when I hear some people saying dump her,there are 2billion girls to chose from.
Where are those girls and where are they hiding cause I dnt get to see any single girl.
I am tired of rejection,I am tired of holding onto 1 girl like a life support.
I would like to know all your sources of motivation

You have find motivation from within. Don't focus much on end results or perfection, only progress. Feel good knowing that every time you go out and get rejected, you get slightly better. Learn from it and isolate any variables and make any adjustments. Take metrics on what you're doing. How many approaches have you done tonight? How long did you stay in set? Did you break rapport to spark attraction or qualify her to get investment?

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heres some motivation. if you don't study and improve yourself your going to be a virgin for life and you'll be a looser. no lie, he who procrastinates masterbates. but in all seriousness. every seduction technique that u learn here, that is designed to build attraction will revolve around the concept that women are naturally atracted to the alpha male. or it will revolve around nlp. some companies will teach you to go act like and idiot to make it seem like "you don't care" and that "you were in state" don't listen to that advice, its cancerous. oh, and after you build attraction you need to build a connection. all that means is to be her friend, become friends with her. you need both attraction and connection for a girl to actually like u. you need any help just post. theres some great minds on this forum.

My motivation? My motivation is that I love this shit. I had a date with a girl yesterday. Went for some drinks together, made some tasty ass dinner at my place, got pretty high while having a smoke, shared a load of laughs and had some mind-boogingly good sex afterwards. This, or a myiriad of other moments like this, are the moments that I live for, and the ones that I will remember with a smile one day, when all this is over. Fuck leading a preditable life withering away; how is that not enough motivation?

You said you don't see all those girls. My conclusion is that either you live in a very secluded area or that here are girls, but they are not paying attention to you because your game is still fucked. Either way, both these things can be improved, so get on it.

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Like any skill the start is rough and painful once you get the basics down though every victory is fun and challenging and I feel better as a person, plus I like to have a playlist to get me going some songs that do it.

Girl can't dance, Mr. invisible - Example
So easy - Guns n' Roses
and lately MeMeMe - Teddi

Omg. Yes! Music! I drive around and blast music sometimes before I sarge. That's good motivation.

Seems to me like you still alot of work to do. Your self esteem and self confidence seem to be out of whack while your perception of what we do is also kinda wrong. "Pick-up" is not a magical system that automatically makes you attractive and irresistible. There is no magic routine, there is no magic opener. But if you put in the time, energy, and effort then you will begin getting results. Do not lose hope. Get out there, start opening sets, find out what works for you and what doesn't and practice, practice, practice.
As far as motivation goes... Just remember that your life will change whenever you become a successful PUA. You will live a lifestyle that you WANT to live, not one that you HAVE to live because you don't have a choice.

This reminds me of a buddy of mine who recently wrote a novel that sucks shit. I promised to read it but my God, I couldn't get through the first page. So I skipped. . . and found that the entire book was shit.

And I wonder. . . where the fuck does he get his motivation?

Thanks everyone for the wonderful replies,it was really helpful and insightful.