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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 3:35 am 
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Dear Pua's

I met a girl yesterday, she was with her friend (obstacle), and I got their FACEBOOK account and took PHOTOS as well.
Today, I sent her a message: "Hey here is your pic, You are very interesting, I like girls who play sports. So lets meet up, when are you free this week?"

The result: I got blocked from FB.

pLEASE Help how to resolve this.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 2:01 pm 
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The result: I got blocked from FB.

pLEASE Help how to resolve this.
This seems awful deliberate, man... And pretty clear.

You don't resolve this. You find another girl.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 4:26 pm 
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I'd add to this that while you could have asked her out a little more smoothly than that, and you didn't build any kind of attraction first (unless you guys had a conversation before dropping that line asking her out)... That may not be where you went wrong...

I have a feeling she wasn't aware you were asking for her FB for romantic reasons... And that you weren't clear about WHY you wanted to connect with her in the first place... So when she figured it out, she felt duped and dropped you.

At least that's my read on it.

Next time escalate and flirt. Make sure she knows why you're asking.

I also wonder why you didn't go for her number instead of her FB? Always get the number, dude.


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:06 pm 
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To me, this interaction feels rushed and self sabotage. Perhaps some animosity too.

Girls tend to give guys their Facebook to just get rid of you without hurting your feelings to your face.

Get used to it and find a new girl. Next time ask for their phone number

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What do you want sam?

Things like this happen all the time. I can't say you did anything wrong. At least not from what you included here. I'd simply suggest that you forget about it and move on with your life.

You have to learn to let go and recreate new man. Its not about getting the girls as much as it is about developing your character and strength. By learning to walk away and let go you develop the strength to attract higher quality of women into your life in the future.

I was always with attractive women growing up, but I never knew how to let go. I'd latch on and as a result I'd go through low points after the relationship(even in ones in which i left them) in which i'd only be attraction women who weren't quality. But the more and more I learned to let go, the higher the quality of women that would come into my life directly after relationships.

And this is a easy one.. Its not going to pain you to let go, at least I don't think. True strength is developed when you let go in moments of pain.

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