Okay so I had coffee with a cute lady today, definitely interested in seeing her again. How should I go about getting a second date? Is the whole "wait three days" rule bullshit?

Don't wait. Take what you want.

Call her up or send a message and tell her:

"Well that was fun - I guess you're not so bad How about a drink next week. What's your schedule look like?"

Its all vibes bro.. All dating rules with women are bullshit IMO. Many are just guides for men who don't have a clue, but even then - they still don't work for a man who isn't positioning himself to be attractive from the inside out.

I almost always call the next day, but sometimes I call the same day. It really doesn't matter. If you know how to attract women you will attract them despite your physical actions.

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Sent her a text 4 hours ago, no response.....

Thats why i always CALL.. That way i am certain whats going on..

Just wait.. Don't send another.. don't call. Wait now

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It really depends on the situation it varies for every girl. You kind of have to feel it out. There is no 3 day rule or anything like that.

However if you invite a girl to do something and she doesn't respond then wait it out or else you will come off desperate.
I say give it a week and then call her and say hey me and some friends (ideally mostly if not all women although you don't mention that) are having a bbq or going out for dinner etc etc would you like to come along? if she says can't then say lame maybe we should get together another time. THEN after a couple days I would call her again and say hey I got some time free at such and such time me and you are getting lunch or w.e.

I strongly agree with everyone saying call.