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| a3ghost | PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 4:13 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Jan 31, 2008 8:22 pm Posts: 33 | | Okay so I have been in my town for like 3 years and I literally have no friends. I have acquaintances that I talk to only during lunch (i'm a senior) but thats about it. I skipped school for like 5 days and no one even bother to give me a call, message on myspace, text or anything. As if I don't exist.
Most of the pick-up content is to basically convey that you are popular and "desired". Unfortunately I lack that.
Basically how do you become a pick up artist if you barely have any friends and such? I've been studying this material for months now and without progress because I haven't given an effort to do so. I'm afraid to fail.
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| Chino Kapone | PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 6:18 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:39 pm Posts: 914 | | You are going to be unsuccessful. Especially when you first start out. You have to learn from it and understand that it comes with the territory. Nobody bats 1.000. The thing that i get from you post is that you expect people to wonder where you are when you were gone. Do you do the same for them? Do you ask wher ethey were are they ok and so on. If you don't, than how can you expect people to be willing to show you they care if you do not do the same for them.
If anything go up to some of the popular people and ask how their weekend was. Be breezy, in and out, don't try and make too much conversation just get used to approaching guys and girls about their weekends, classes whatever. Make small talk and do this repeatedly. You will find if you put the effort into caring about what other people are doing they will do the same for you. _________________ success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.
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| A-Train | PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:12 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Mar 15, 2008 12:30 am Posts: 29 | | Check out The Seduction Bible podcast on how to be popular in high school. Just google it. The feed is free. Also, dude this information doesn't work like magic spells. Work on your inner game so you know how to calibrate the parts of the game that are congruent to who you already are.
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| sweetw1982 | PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:07 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:47 pm Posts: 102 Website: http://www.myspace.com/sweetw1982 Location: Troy, NY | | Yeah dude, this stuff doesnt come natural from reading. Trust me there. I spent 2 months in-doors reading with a bad case of bronchitis. couldnt talk = couldnt sarge. I have been sargin for 3 months now and fail 9 of 10 times. I love it. before that i failed 99 of 100 times. That is good progress. I still struggle but its a learning attempt, i am learning from my failures so i fail a little less. i cant go out as often as i like with my job but that will change. Keep in mind that it took Mystery many years, Style as well. Everyone started off badly.
B-Sweet
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