I've dated a HB9 3 times now, I'm not desperate to F-close, but I do want our relationship to progress somewhat.

I invited her to stay with me at uni, as we both live with family. She seemed relatively up for that in person, however was hesitant. She texted me to let me know she was home as I tease her about her driving. I texted her the next day saying:

"Haha good;) If it's Fri you're off, you should come up Thursday and we'll check out that Jazz club x" (10:56am)

Her: "Hahaa... Ooh okay, I'll have a little think, sounds good! But {city I'm at uni at} is quite the trekk! Ahaa x" (17:55)

Me: "Haha it's only 30 mins It'll be fun X"

Her: "Haha yeah on the train, but is £30 and I have to save for my travels... :$ I'm sure it would be! X"

Me: "Haha oh yeah! You can always on in on the way up on your travels if I'm free and you fancy it. If I'm back in {Local County/ State} let's grab a (decent) coffee this weekend X"

Her: "Hahaa oopps, yeahh will let you know! Hey! That coffee was the best in town... I mean she was obvs a total pro. But sure Id be up for that, even if its not quite the bakers armss... x"

The bakers arms was where she chose to get coffee last time and it turned out to be a really rough pub and she is a self-professed girl of taste. So I teased about it. How I do play it from now on? I haven't replied yet, was thinking of replying Friday or something. I've kissed her lots of times. I told her to sit on my knee when we were outside as it was cold, and she said "no it looks weird, I'll do this" and put her legs on my lap and held my finger, while we kissed.

I'm supposed to be seeing a HB7 tonight. I just wonder if because I've noticed how vulnerable I am with emotions i.e. I suffer from depression etc I hold them back to the point of appearing Aspergus or something. How do I build comfort?

OP - locking this thread as it's the exact same thread about exactly the same two girls located here...

invited-hb9-to-stay-not-great-reply-vt187600.html

Please don't create duplicates of the same topic just because you didn't get the answers you wanted to hear.