Ok so this is more of a question of technique. I feel as if I can invoke attraction when need be and go through the whole process in relation to that.

But what i'm wondering is how do I get from point A to point B in terms of getting laid.

As dumb as this may sound; what I am looking for is an instruction manual.

Because obviously we all know that both "hey I want to fuck" and "I'll just take you out on dates until you magically decide that you want to have sex with me" does not work.

What is the in between? If I want to get laid what is the best way to go about it?

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PUA Maxim: Leave the woman better than you found her.

This... instruction manual doesn't exist, man. Every girl is different.

"Hey, I want to fuck" could even work on some girls - depending how you delivered it and how close you were/if you could get away with it in a cheeky way...

And that's why there's no silver bullet to connect point A and point B. Too many variables.

Escalation is the most important thing, though. Always be escalating... Go from small to big. Look up the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder... and start using it.

Are you having any trouble kissing and making out with the girls?

How old are you?

Are you in a living situation that permits you to bring girls home to your crib?

Do the girls you date have their own places?

Answer those questions and i'll do my best to help.

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I'm 21 years old, I am in college right now and I live in an apartment, and the girls that go here usually live in a dorm or an apartment themselves.

The thing with me and girls is a few things really, and they are things that I should be able to change.

I went through a period last semester around november/december where I was having decent luck with women and was talking to a few at a time.

However, In all actuality it is still not that good, I've only had sex with 3 women since march of last year.

I'm feeling that a few things right now is holding me back

1. I'm naturally more of an introvert, it's not that i have a problem talking to people it's just that sometimes I don't feel like it. I also have had this thing lately where I've had a lack of patience with people and have a tendency to lose my patience easily with people, causing me to not want anything to do with people at all (I am aware of this problem and i'm making steps to fixing this).

2. I'm 6'6" and weight about 350 pounds, i exercise often and am fairly strong so i'm not obese but I am a big boy. I have this problem in the back in my mind that by me being forward that i will do one of a few things
-scare off the girl(s)
-get a bad rep for being honest about my desires
-get in trouble for harassment (I know that is not logical but It's a thought that I have)
-get turned down (this is the least of my worries but it's not favorable)
-cause some sort of trouble I don't want to get in (trust me, being a big guy can do that, working as a bouncer you would be surprised how many blokes like to stand up to me just because their girlfriends flirt with me).

3.I'm not dumb, but I do tend to be quiet because I see no need to say much when I'm around people (unless asked to), so it is hard for me to be able to maintain an extroverted personality for long because it exhausts after a prolonged period of time.

4.I have too much pride to be overly persistent with a woman, so if i don't get a response the first time from a woman than I usually never try again with that same girl (even though persistence seems to be suggested, I tend to have a hard time doing so).

5. I've been raised in a conservative household where I was taught to "look at all women like they are my sisters (blegh!), so I have it hard wired in my mind to approach a girl with dating interest instead of sexual interest by default.

this is a bit much to throw at you all at once, but any tips could help that could help to turn my game around.

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PUA Maxim: Leave the woman better than you found her.

The most basic tip I can through at you is to just mind your thoughts and your words bro.

I believe that our thoughts become our words, our words, become our actions, our actions become our habits, our habits become our character and hour character becomes our destiny. Therefore, if you are still unable to control your thoughts, do your best to control your words. If you were unable to be in control of what leaves your mouth, do you best to control your actions. And so on..

I wake up every morning and I think everything I want into existence. There was a time when I would picture myself being a big bad seducer that would walk into a club with 11 women all around me, and I'd send all the women home with guys that I found to be cool at the venue I would be in. I'd then grab a couple more new girls from the venue and head home with them. I'd play out that scenario over and over in my head at different venues with different girls all throughout the day.

Self talk man.. This is where your words become your actions.. I tell myself Im the greatest thing thats ever happened to the existence of life period, the greatest that has ever graced anywhere in the universe since the dawn of time over 50 times a day. I say.. "I love women, and women love me" .. Some of the things you were writing weren't helping you condition. And of course I understand that you're just explaining your situation, but even writing it helps reinforce the belief that this is your reality. The world is mental. We all see the same things, but we all interpret them differently depending on our own mentality. Which is why one mans trash is another mans treasure. When you see women and social situations from the proper perspective - through proper thinking and proper self talk - you will begin taking action within those situations in a new way. You have to determine how you want to see the world; so that you can operate in it in a way thats most beneficial to you. For example.. In my reality.. ALL women think I'm super attractive man. And while it my not always be true, its a beautiful reality, and so its the way that I choose to live my life. How will you live yours?

And just like working out; you can't expect to see results from implementing such practices right away. No one works out for one day and then quits because they don't see a change in their muscles. They understand that they have to work out with consistency for months and months before they get the results they are looking for. And its the same thing with proper self talk and affirmations.

Ever gained or lost a good amount of weight and didn't even notice it because the changed happened so gradually? We don't notice because we see ourselves everyday and so its hard to pick up on any real change. But other people see it. And thats how these affirmations work. In a year.. You'll be so great with women and won't even remember that your success was largely a result of the affirmations you were saying consistently for 6 months a year ago.

Thats the path I recommend you take. I've always been solid with women, but I'm definitely on a completely different level that I was a few years ago.

You can be to. And if consistently internalize the above. You will.

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