Fuck. There is this HB 9-9.5 at my school and when I'm just simply in her presence, I feel both confident/alpha and nervous. It's really fucken annoying, because my heart starts pounding and I get a major rush of adrenaline when I'm around her. I don't understand how I could have 2 polar opposite emotions. This nervousness needs to go away, because I don't have a prayer of making a productive conversation with her if my heart is racing and I'm not able to keep my cool.

Any advice?

I hear you bro. That's the way I am too around the super hot babes. Just keep approaching and talking to these women, and realize that they're just like everyone else. Basically, with repetition, you will lose the nervousness and retain or even add to the confidence you have.

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Hey how we all doing?

So the following is one of my theories very summarized. You must believe it for it to work.

So you say you get nervous around some HB but you must realized that you are rating on a number scale. With that being said 10's don't exist as no person is perfect with no flaw but now I ask have you ever met a person without two or three flaws? NO and that is why everything is a seven, THEY ARE ALL FLAWED so don't idolize them.

This mentality must be practiced and it must become a frame.

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind"

If she makes you nervous, go talk to someone who doesn't. Fine, she's smoking, but you need to get away from the "one girl" syndrome. The game is about making you a better person who in turn attracts hotter women.

Who the hell is she? In 30 years she's going to be an old hag with hair tufts growing out of her chin and hemorrhoids and bad breath. You're gonna still be improving your game and having the life of your dreams with 9's and 10's flocking around you. It sucks for women because there window of beauty is a lot shorter than our window of charisma.

Thanks guys for the replies. The problem is that around most girls (whether they're hot or not), I don't really care what they think of me. This lack of care actually leads to more confidence and less fear. However, around this girl, I actually do care what she thinks about me and it fucks me up in the end. I'm going to actually stop even thinking about what she thinks about me and have the "I am the prize" mentality.