Ok
So I had a dating website subscription. I had a humorous, cocky, smartass profile with some NLP mixed in.
So I get her number and we talk. We have a lot in common.
I drove 30 miles to her town and we did starbucks; talked about connections, attractions and other stuff. She was laughing had her legs crosssed and was fidgiting her foot. She didn't freak out when I did kino during our "date" (damn, I hate the sound of that word). Seems like IOIs to me. We went next door and I got a pizza. I left and we did a hug. I didn't want to force a K/C at the end of the night, how cliche'.

So we talk again and I was dumb and said I'm going to watch a movie and she should join me. I realised that was stupid because I can't talk with her or be private with her at the movies. So, I'll probably change plans and say the movie I want to see is no longer playing.

My question...Where do you go for 2nd meetings or "dates"? I feel wierd as if it's too early to envite myself over to her house to watch rented movies. However, I don't feel like doing dinner (boring) again. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and before that I got out of a 2 year relationship. I really don't remember where I went after the number close. Any suggestions?

TIA

Well in my prefrence I would just take her somewhere or to something that I already had planned. That way you eleminate the awakardness of you setting aside time for her. It kinda gives you a higher value instead of you coming off as needy. You draw her into your world. You show her that you have a life and not only that you enjoy it. This should give you a few more points in her eyes and give you a higher value.

Thats just what I like to do for second dates, hope it helps!

LOL, I haven't even read your post but pimp nick there bro.

If she's 30 miles away from you and you drove out to see her you already dropped your value. I'm not saying you're dead in the water, I'm just saying, if you're a male "10", and that's what we're really trying to do here -become male 10's - why would you do that?

For any "date" I'd do whatever the hell I wanted to do and tell her to come along.

"Hey, I've got to go pick out some new shoes, come help me."

"Hey, I'm going to check out this Blues band on Monday night. Come keep me company."

"I've got to go get a new picture for my license. Come to the DMV with me and help me make fun of people."

Whatever. Just be the cocky 10 and if she says no, move on. Work on your game, not on the dame.