So, I am still in the game. I sort of took a break from the forums here. I was actually seeing an event and a few guys flopped last minute and bailed on both the events as well as doing pickup. With that said, I pretty much frequented other forums and made some other friends. I dated some girls and had some new relationships. I am getting older and actually working on a variety of different things. One thing is making new friends as I am in the age range where people are 1) in serious relationships 2) engaged 3) married 4) having kids or 5) just being lame and not going out anymore.


Guys, I made some new friends this past year. Some do cold approach, some are natural, and some are just waiting to take the red pill. Here is a situation I have come across.

I made a new friend. We have did pickup. He is natural. I am more cold approach. He has seen me infield and I do not talk game. He knows I love to meet, approach, and women. More recently, I feel like he has been trying to sabotage me. I will drop a few instances of what I mean while I am in set.

"She has a bf joe..."

"Oh... ARE YOU GOING TO GET HER NUMBER..."

I have really gone out of my way to be a friend. I did some cold approach and brought girls over. I introduced him to the girls. I ended up taking both their number just cause. The other day, I was talking, and he heard me say something, and he made this facial expression of distaste/anger/pissed off. He then faked a smile at me and acted like nothing.


When I first met him, I felt this before, like this dude did not like me. It is so strange. Now, quite frankly, it is not a big deal to lose a friend if he is in fact malicious. I maybe paranoid like before. I even called him out on... dude, if you aren't cool with me, its cool. No biggie. He proceeded to call or text to do pickup (despite he is natural). He lately has dodged my texts or calls. No response. Sort of picking up on the cold shoulder. Lately, I am just doing the same thing back. If it is nothing, he will text, and call to do more pickup.


How do I approach this situation? The issue is not just the one friend. He associates within the same social circle as me. Some of the women involved, I feel like he maybe putting me down too or in front of them which is a problem. Advice is appreciated.

Simple answer here.

You need to surround yourself with people that make you the best person you can be. Period.

Don’t fvcking waste your time with people who hurt your self esteem or you don’t enjoy being around. That’s something only low status dudes do, and that’s definitely not who you are.

Be around the people YOU want to be around, do the things YOU want to do, say the things YOU want to say, and live the life YOU want to live.

If others don’t approve of that, then fvck them. You don’t need that negativity in your life anyways.

I think you knew what I’m telling you the entire time...

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Well, how old are you? I am in my mid twenties getting my trade licence or ticket. The plan is to be thirty with a productive self sufficient business. I want to keep doing cold approach. The hard part about getting older is that, friends do not want to go out, and a lot of people are settling down.

This guy invited me out to his friends party so, I suppose I may have been jumping ahead of myself.

My dad was a bit paranoid of people for his own reasons. He had them. I suspect I get it too. I think people are not up to no good sometime. I think it affects my relationships too. For example, pickup a girl, date or day two, see her for a bit, hook up, have sex, fool around, and then, if she does not call, I figure its done.

This is something I will work on. He is pretty good with girls. Then again, I have picked up more in front of him too. I just saw a few instances where people have a tendency to block me, directly or indirectly. With this guy, he is in my social circle, and the females are too. Some girls we have picked up were together too. I took numbers in front of him. Some of the girls, I picked up right in front of him, and look, if they like him, I prefer they go too him. Honestly, I am pretty easy to get along with. I am not sure if he thinks I am cock or what.



Another time I pulled, a friend called me a homosexual in front of a girl, and I was mad. I gave him shit but, when I turned back, the girl was now approached by another guy and I was furious. Her friend came over to say its nothing and she likes me. I told my friend I was leaving with her and he talked more shit at me. I just left with the girl.


do not know why but, people are not always nice to me and it sucks cause, some I think are friends..