Hi guys, I read somewhere that it is good to remain in contact with a girl before a date, so as to keep you in her mind and to reduce the chances of her canceling out on you. Thing is, I asked a girl out on a date for this upcoming friday and she said she couldnt because she was busy, so I pleasantly asked her to suggest a day and she said how about in 4 years or never! She was putting up resistance. Lol anyways that didnt stop me, we laughed at it a bit and I told her like this: ill make an exception for you, how about we go saturday, take it or leave it. She went with it and agreed to go out with me on sat.

Now during the week I dont want her to lose interest and flake out on the date. So should I text her atleast once this week? Like something short and casual that doesnt relate to the date?

Same question as another post...

I've learned that being super spontaneous works best.

Not scheduling a week in advance.... RIGHT NOW.

Put the girl on the spot. Girls are flakey as fuck. There is no use planning with them because you just get all excited looking forward to it. Be spontaneous man. Girls like it and it makes it easier for you.