Hey so I've been having some problems recently and although i fucked two sisters recently (not together) and definitely a one off. I automatically presume a girl isn't interested in the first instance, even did with these sisters until they basically came on to me.

Anyway, a month or so ago I went on a date with an 8 and it was followed by another date with dinner - she then came back to mine. I only got to suck her tits, she wouldn't let me do anything else until next time. Anyway there was no next team, after a few days of silence she said she wasn't up for going out again. I mean how the fuck does that work?

So I recently met another girl through my mates girlfriend. Once again I assumed she wasn't interested although she did keep talking to me when we were around the table. Anyway later on the evening my other mate was talking to her (who reckons he is a bit of a player) so I assumed that was that, until she left - at which point I messaged her to see where she went. She then replied back and we then text the whole of the next day and on the Sunday when she asked if I was going out later. I actually couldn't as done a whole weekend drinking and it was Sunday, so I said I'd see but I doubt it but I suggested if I didn't see her then we should do some drinks - she replied yeah sure. I said i would text her later but i didnt. But still thought all was good.

Anyway I woke up yesterday and hear she went out my other mate was also out and texted her to see if it was good. I got no reply all day and the when I text again to say oh ok then. She then came back with abrupt answers. I suggested drinks Thursday and she then said she is stopping drinking for a while and not going out this week. So I basically said she sounded a bit off but fair enough and got no reply

Literally 24 hours earlier she was messaging me loads, always asking questions and then asking if I was out. To this. I know what my mate is like and he would've been trying it. So... The question is what do I do?

Please help. Is there any way back?

Thanks

R

Such things happen. People get weird, and it makes your brain go paranoid making up conspiracy theories.

There can be any reason for her behavior. Maybe she thinks you flaked on her, and she feels rejected and/or hurt. Maybe she just changed her mind, found another guy to chase. Maybe something else happened. Maybe nothing happened at all, and she is just busy at the moment. Whatever the reason is, there is no point digging into it and find out. That would make you look needy, weird, and like a stalker.

Instead, focus on other things and people to keep you busy (and happy), and put her aside for the moment. And whatever you write or say to her, keep a positive attitude! Always assume the most positive things. Assume she is just busy and have not yet answered, and let those assumptions shine through. You can text something like "I suppose you are busy at the moment. Let me know when you are ready to have that drink. I'm looking forward to it. It will be fun". The last "it will be fun" is quite important, to make her think about it in a positive way.

And remember, always keep your mood up! If you feel pissed, wait until you feel better before you call/text her.

Thanks

I'm just paranoid it will get back to my mates girlfriend who is her best mate. Then suddenly my other mate gets her and I'll look like a food.

Wish I could have this positive view on things but I don't, I always think the worst. Anyone have any ideas on how to change this about myself? Like I said previously, I always assume a girl isn't interested.

Thanks

go for getting getting laid ALWAYS, "oh am I out? yea i am cum", forget about your mates, they arent going to be there when youre going to get your dick sucked,

also, ISOLATE THE GIRL your friends shouldnt even know your making moves anyways, kino and escalate as fast as possible and build a romantic connect to hook the girl really good.

also if your mates cock block a lot, let them know, and to not butt in


last but not least, dont assume if the girl likes you or not, just make the moves cause you like her, let her reject you afterwards, but dont defeat yourself