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PostPosted: Sat Sep 06, 2014 11:04 am 
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Hey guys, I need help here please ! It'll be a long post, so hang in there ;)
I was on vacation a few days ago in Croatia, in a big coastal city. Ah yes, it's not a legend, croatian girls are the most perfect girls I've seen till now ;)

So I was taking photos and I see this slender brunette near a big boat, she was giving excursions flyers, and I was interested. I stood next to the board, ignoring her, then she comes talk to me. Here is approximately what I remember :

Her : hi, blabla ... these islands are very beautiful ...
Me : I'm not alone, I can't decide just like that
Her : oh ... I see you must talk to your girlfriend
Me : No, I'm with my little brother
Her : (don't remember if she smiled or giggled, but she reacted)
Me : I need to talk to him before deciding
Her : are you interested in churches, nature, history ...
Me : Yes, but my brother is not, he prefer beaches
(We laugh together)
Her : where are you from ?
Me : Algeria, we are half french blabla ...
Her : (she asks me about arabic, I teach her some words, she seems really interested)
Me : I tell her that I hope to take the tour. I ask her about a park where there is a festival, she don't know, I say bye and I continue to walk.
(I reach the end of the harbor 10 mins later, and go back)
I see her from afar, she is with a client. When she see me, she literally runs towards me, and asks me if I decided. Told her my brother is tired and need some time to take a decision. We discuss a little, tell her I found the park and maybe go there to see, the client (a guy) is a few meters away, waiting. Then I say bye to her and go away, say hi to the client who is not pleased and return to my house.

I made 3 huge mistakes but didn't realize this until I got home :
- I should have exchanged numbers with her, I had a local sim !!
- She said she don't go out, but seemed interested in the park, I should have invited her !!!
- I taught her interest was just a manner to attract me, and make me buy the tour, really stupid of me !

This happened friday night. I tried convincing my brother to go, but he was tired. And the bad luck kept piling.
* I go out the next morning, and didn't find the girl, I wanted to invite her directly for a drink / lunch.
* I go out the sunday morning, there is a tempest, no boat, no girl, f**k !!!
* Monday, it keeps raining all day !!! Why god why !!!

Finally, Thuesday is sunny ! I prepare my self and go to the harbor, She immediately get off the boat and come see me. We talk about me, her, arabic language, my brother that is late, I teach her more words, she seems so interested, it feels more than just a tactic to make me buy tickets.
While she sends someone pick my brother, we keep talking and laughing, I compliment her on her lovely accent in french and arabic, shee keeps laughing and giggling and blushing like that for maybe 10 mins.
Then we embark on the boat, she don't go with us, she's just selling the tour, I taught I could pass the journey with her, f**k !

We return in the afternoon, 6pm, I told my brother to go ahead and let me with her. Like in the morning, we have a really good chat, I sense a connection between us. I told her about my nightout at an irish pub in the city, where I was the only sober one (I don't drink).

She's surprised and tell me that it's good to not drink. And then ask me if I know a place nearby that do cocktails without alcohol, ask her where it is.

Now it was my chance I was waiting for, and without a doubt, she clearly wanted me to invite her.
So I tell her that :
Me : I know it's direct, I find you very interesting, how about we go test these famous cocktails ? I'll teach you arabic or french, and you teach me croatian.
Her : (Smiling) Yes ! But I end my work at 10pm, and I live far.
Me : You are not from here ?
Her : No, I'm serbian, I live 7 kms from here, I rent a room in summer season.
Me : Look, I'm just 10 mins walk from here, I'll call you at 9:30pm and we will see how to schedule.
Her : (Smiling) Yes !
Me : (I take her right hand, and kiss it, and let her hand in mine for a few more seconds while looking in her eyes)
Her : (her left hand is on her mouth, maybe too much blushing)
Me : I really hope to know you better and have a drink.
Her : (smiling)
(I should have tried to kiss her just after that, I'm an idiot !!)

So I go to the bus station, my brother was waiting nearby for 15/20 mins. And when I taught it's all good, it starts raining, again !! My idiot brother didn't bring any change, and I consumed all mine with the tour, the masks ... So I hurry to the old town, make change, come back home, prepare myself and call her at 9:30pm.

And it was too good to be true, it was my last night there and I had to go back to Zagreb the next morning.
She answers, she seems really sorry, she ended her shift sooner because of the rain and someone got her home.
Really bad luck !!

I ask her about facebook, she tells me I won't find her, she asks mine and I send an sms.
The next morning (Wednesday) I take the bus to Zagreb, and Thursday I'm in the airport. I say to myself : call her now or you will regret it all your life.

I call her, she's happy, we talk, tell her she should come to Algeria, that would be awesome, ask me if there is a visa. I tell her yes but it's very simple to have. She tells me she added me on facebook, I tell her that I want to know her better and now we can do that.

So after we hung up, I verify my facebook and find her, and see that she have a boyfriend ! It's a very recent relationship (2 months friendship, 1 month dating), why !!!

So now, I have some questions for you experts :

- From everything so far, I sense that she is interested in me. If not, she wouldn't agree to go for a drink despite having a boyfriend, or am I too full of myself ?
- She didn't seem reluctant to come to Algiers, should I push it and invite her, or is it too obvious ?
- From the conversations above, do you think I made the right moves ? What should I have said so she would have waited for me even in the rain ?

To conclude, here is an important lesson I learned :

Go for it !! When you sense a connection like that, don't waste time, don't trust the weather, don't pay attention to the people around, don't delay your decisions, just live the moment and try your luck ! Don't make the same mistakes I made, they cost me 3 days !!!
The worst thing that could happen is her saying "No, I'm not interested in you", that won't kill you.


Thanks for reading, it's very long post and I hope to have valuable critics :) See ya guys !


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