Hi guys,

recently I have been touring the country and have been working in different cities doing various jobs. I did a months in Edinburgh and have come back to London and then I'm leaving for Paris tomorrow. I am not complaining, it has been an awesome summer... there are just a couple of problems. Logistic problems.

I will give an example:

I was working as a barman in an art gallery last night in Mayfair. I decided to try and charm the guests, not hit on them but just casually start up conversations (to get tips) and I basically got to the point where I wasn't doing any work but joining in with the party. My manager didn't seem to mind so I went with it.

The night was great and I had a lot of fun and then afterwards I went for some drinks with two girls who had been working on the cloakroom that night. They had seen me working the crowd which probably helped demonstrate a bit of social savvy. One of them was a dancer who had just graduated from college; she was doing this job to pay the bills. I am a sucker for blondes and she had a wicked sense of humour so I thought I'd go for it. I worked the two of them and then zoned in on the blonde. The other one got the message and excused herself and left just the two of us.

My point is!!!!
It would have been impossible to bounce her to my place as I was staying at my dad's girlfriends house
Her place was miles away,
I'm leaving the next day for Paris,
What could I have done?

I escalated physically, we kissed but then we got kicked out of the pub that we were in.
This has happened before with other girls and it's getting annoying.

My question is: "When you haven't got a decent logistical plan is there anything you can do to improve closing that night?"

At the moment I just rely on day 2's or on getting back to her place.
I go back to Cardiff to my new house in 20 days so there I won't have such a problem, I just want to know so that I can practise while I'm in Paris.

Let me know what you guys think.

McGrath

Bro- You have a belief issue....

ANY where you take her her alone, will work well. Rent a Hotel room, In a Park, Car, Stairwell, etc.
It's all up to you.
What you believe is possible, I'm not kidding.

Truth.

If you have the right frame of mind, anywhere you go will work. The inverse is also true: if you don't believe in yourself, you can take her to the most 'romantic' place on earth and the interaction will suck doggy balls.

Yeah I think you guys are right.

It's something I've been struggling with. Thanks for pointing it out it's helped

You can take a girl to the most romantic spot on earth, if you're operating out of scarcity it won't mean a damn thing.

Duhhhhhhh!!!!!!

Go to the girl's place. Even if she flat-shares, her mate will fall asleep then booom! you can bang.