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You guys don't understand the terms.
Introverts generally prefer having close, deep relationships with a few people, whereas extroverts derive energy from engaging with larger groups of people and typically have more surface relationships.
Right on! I greatly appreciate my friendships, but I will not reach out to others for no reason. I am that guy at the gym with headphones on and no, I do not wish to engage in a conversation with you, thank you very much. To me, superficial friendships are a waste of time that I would rather use for... Anything else, really.
That being said, I would not say I am antisocial. I will reach out to others when I feel they need me. I socialize when I am going out, and I love to do so. Getting laid is a legitimate reason for me to reach out to others. I spend enough time with my friends and I get along well with them. So, all those things considered, definetly an introvert.
PS: Good thing there are extroverts out there who help "connect people". Reading back on what I just wrote, I sound like a bit of an arrogant cunt!
PSS: There is no such thing as an "extrovert with guys but introvert with hot girls". You are either introverted or extroverted, period. What is at play with your behavior with girls you are attracted to is just the usual stuff. Inner game, approach anxiety, etc. etc.
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