Ok met a new girl 1 month ago at a club thru mutual friends, I am 30 she is 22. We had sex on the 7th date after we met. We got wasted after partying in the club and I fucked the shit out of her in the back of my car and then in my house on sofa, then on the bed, We fucked like animals. After that she would always text and call me every morning like 4-5 times a day. She would also always ask for me to pick her up(she has no car and she recently migrated from Cuba)

She would say crazy shit like we were are going to spend the rest of our life together, that she was going to be the next mother of my kids(she has no kids), Just crazy stuff. And also she was extremely jealous of everyone, even her own shadow. It was creepy the insane shit that would come out of her mouth.

Last week she suddenly goes from Red hot to ice cold, from one day to the other. She started calling off dates and started to flake. This kind of left me stunned because she would never do that.

She stared to pull away and I started to chase her because i couldn't understand the sudden change of behavior.

I got tired of chasing her so i said I was going to her house and never showed up and went no contact for 2 days. She started calling me like crazy blowing up and texting my phone until I answered. When we spoke she was actually stuttering from how nervous she was from talking to me. I keep it short and said i needed to go because i was busy.

Later i texted if she wanted me to pass by so that we can go out Friday night and she goes cold again giving me curve balls and excuses that she is tired and stuff(she doesn't work because she has no work permit) And if we can leave it for tomorrow.

Saturday I called late night and just said I will be in your house in 30 min. She got extremly apprehensive and rude and said that she was on her period and was going to sleep.

Like around 4:00am I texeted her SPAM and said to her "HEY AFTER YOUR PERIOD IS OVER LET ME KNOW BECAUSE I AM GOING TO FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU LIKE LAST WEEK" and then I went silent. She has not texted back but was on whatssapp for most of the day.

What shall I do ???

Me personally i would run for the hills, she sounds bi polar. One minute shes clingy the next shes cold. Also saying things like we'll be together for ever etc is a total turn off for myself. I would jst abandon ship if i was you and use the excuse of i hate my feelings being pulled from pillar to post so i want to just be friends.

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Hey man thanks for the reply. My logic and rationality says the same thing "run and dont look back" but man does this chick know how to fuck. Its like really rough sex with her.

Anyways I hate it when my ego gets shot down by these low life manipulating women. Is there any way I can turn the tables on her?

Any suggestions??? Freezeout, push and pull???

Freeze out? Push/pull? On someone you purport to be your girlfriend?

Dude, come on. Give your head a shake.

Why do you think most of the guys on this site are quipping about not being able to maintain a relationship with a woman? Tactics like those are ego-based. Guys like EddieFews are huge proponents of them, but the reality is they only exacerbate insecurity AND instability (not surprisingly) in the relationship.

The moment you stop playing games in a relationship is when you can make a conscious effort to have something healthy, and live more purposefully.

If you feel you can't be honest to this person about what's going on and how it's influencing you to feel, then examine if that's an issue of yours, or the relationship (e.g., a poor 'fit'). Tactics like freeze outs may get you what you want in the short term, but in the long run they never work, they're actually destructive. Wouldn't you rather a girl come to you out of a WANTING to be around you, rather than a FEAR of losing you? Love or fear, play games you're living out of a fear and won't gain respect from anyone else, particularly women.

Hi thanks you for responding I really appreciate it, But have you read my entire post???

This girl is manipulative, crazy, and takes advantage of people how are trying to help her. She plays with peoples emotions by saying that she is going to spend the rest of her like with you then all of a sudden for no absolute reason goes ice cold with no sex and starts cancelling dates because she is either tired, has nothing to wear, or is on the rag in a friday or saturday night.

meanwhile she is in SPAM online at 3:00am when supposedly she told me that she is going to sleep.

Anyone else can give me any suggestion???

She is 22, you're 30. Don't take a young girl seriously.

Read this 3x, then ask yourself "Do I really want to be with this person?"

In the long run no, But to have mind blowing sex every once in a while yes. Plus she shot my ego down after I tried helping her get on her feet. I really dont take that lightly. I am just being honest here.

I live in miami. If I wanted casual sex from extremely hot Latin women all I have to do is walk into any night club in south beach or downtown. There is literally 6 chicks for every guy in the clubs here.

But this girl really messed my ego down. Plus sex with this cubanita is literally out of this fucking world. Now that i think about it. She is a PUA in her own rite.

So wait - you think a lunatic like this woman - jealous of her own shadow - will be fine "having mind blowing sex every once in a while"?

Good luck with that.

N2 I agree with you, but only to an extent I think freezeouts are stupid, but I also think there is a difference between freezing out and pulling back and letting the girl come to you. Of course you want her to have the feeling of wanting you around as opposed to fear of losing you, but I'm sure you know just as well as I do when a girl goes cold 9x out of 10 the only remedy is distance not that you're freezing her, but you're pulling back. By the time she clues in its that fear of losing you that causes her to contact you.

I had a girl I was dating literally go from joking talking having fun to colder than alaska. I tried to do the logical thing ask her if something is wrong what happened all of a sudden (before I had much in the way of game) her only response I'm fine, nothing so I pushed some more hit the wall cut off contact for a week she came running to me. Call it a freezeout or pulling back essentially they're the same thing, but that was the only viable option.

I'm not disagreeing with you. You need to figure out the root cause of the problem, but most of the time the remedy is your absence. Either it causes her to have fear of losing you and contact you or miss the good times you had and want you around.
I personally think freezing should be your last ditch option to break a pattern of neediness, but imo the main difference between freezing and pulling back it when you freeze you don't contact until she's at least texted you twice.

Pulling back is being willing to talk at anytime, but letting her come to you by iniating the convo. Which is what Eddie Fews reccomends most of the time. In fact I had a private convo with him a couple days ago and that's exactly what he said just pull back and let her come to you. The only time I saw him reccomend a freezeout is for a guy who texted a girl 10x in a row with no response in which that was his only viable option.

Anyway that's just my opinion feel free to agree or disagree.

Agreed 100%

OP, if you want to stick your D in a blender and turn it on, just do it. It looks to me you have not found the answer you're looking for, but IMO ^this is correct.

Men play games and women play games. Her game was to get you hooked on the pussy and it looks like she got you. She was hoping to f you so good, you would propose to her on the spot. You didn't. You wanted to keep milking the cow for free. She got the hint and is looking for another sucker.

You're telling yourself her sex is so good, but give it a few months or a year, bet your POV will change. It's like the saying goes "No matter how hot a woman is, there's someone out there tired of f'ing her."

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Guys thanks so much for all your responses.

I am going to be honest with you guys and the truth is yes. The bitch got me hooked on her pussy. It is not the best peice of ass I had, nor is she a HB 10 she is more like a HB 7. But this Jinetera sure knows how to fuck. And knows how to apply words that will make any man hooked. The girl has GAME.

Someone posted that as soon as she saw I didnt proposed to her carzy offer she backed out. I am guessing that is what happend here. Plus I been with her literaly almost a month without her having the rag, so my guess is she is also menstruating.

Anyways I cut all contact been like that since saturday. Last text I sent was "HEY AFTER YOUR PERIOD IS OVER LET ME KNOW BECAUSE I AM GOING TO FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU LIKE LAST WEEK" Have not heard from her since then.

Update: I have not spoken to her in almost 2 weeks but became really good friends with her social circle.
I received a phone call and multiple text messages from her desperately asking for me to please give her a chance for her to work in my business.
I told her no because I am already doing business with your friends(social circle) and that I was only interested in a sexual relationship with her.
I said it in a rather insulting way. Nevertheless she kept begging me until i told her please not to call me anymore.

Today same thing happened and which I again told her that i am not interested in her working for me and that I was only interested in sex with her.

I also told her friends for her to please not insist or else they would stop working for me as well.

I would like to continue to have sex with her but I really don't want to look like needy with her.

She really thought that I was desperate for her until she found out about me and her friends. She told me that she couldn't believe that I would give her friends a job and not her.

How can I work this scenerio to continue to see her every once in a while.

These are childish high school games and she's gotten you on her level. Be a man dude and stop the bs.