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| lewism129 | PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2014 3:44 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 06, 2013 1:45 am Posts: 20 | | i read an article by richard laruina that basically said you should keep in touch with as many girls as you can for potential future opportunities. but im wondering does this extend to every girl? like say its a girl who is a friend of a friend who you barely know and madeout with (f close not possible due to logistics). we didnt exchange numbers. i wouldnt mind fucking her but there are plenty of other fish in the sea. im wondering of you think it is pua etiquette/ more proper/ polite to maybe add her on fb OR if you think going to the effort of seeking her out is kind of a dlv and puas shouldnt really bother with going to the effort of maintaining connections after a casual k close only. im also wondering what goes on in a girls mind after making out with a randomfriend of a friend in a club- does she think thats the end of it and it was a good night and isnt really interested cause it was only a makeout (tried fingering on dancefloor and then the lights came on and we had to leave) or does she expect that guy to do something the next day or a few days later and would be a bit offeneded if he never initiated contact. thanks for your input
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2014 4:10 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:17 pm Posts: 3427 Location: Toronto, Canada | | I think going out of your way to get some friend-of-a-friend's number might be a little much.
I sort of agree with the idea of keeping in touch with as many women as possible - but I'd probably add "within reason"...
Make a habit out of getting phone numbers from new people - or more innocuous, even, add them to Facebook from your phone after a few minutes of talking/once you've established they're cool and not crazy or assholes...
A lot of people have very "liberal" Facebook standards. Most people I know wouldn't think it was too weird to get a friend request from someone they met at a party.
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| Chief | PostPosted: Tue Aug 12, 2014 1:57 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:19 am Posts: 5903 Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | Try keeping in touch with as many women as you can like that.
Eventually the abundance will make up for any potential "DLVs" or whatnot.
Don't worry about DLVs. Worry about DLVing is a DLV.
Maintain connections not as a PUA, but as a man who knows tons and tons of women. Macro over micro.
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