Ok i need advise on what to do with my situation.

I had sex with a model who used to date my friend, i say friend, the guy sucks so much ass. We had incredible sex and she knew i was kinda seeing someone and i think she got off on the fact that i was. After we had sex she didn't stop messaging me about how she can't stop thinking about fucking me and generally being flirty and chasing me as i wasn't giving her as much attention. Then shit got weird..... She said her ex, my friend who sucks so much ass had messaged her and said that he wants to change and get back with her and really try. Then she was speaking to me about how he has fucked her head up and she doesn't know what to do or what she wants. She was saying he is hard work and blah blah blah and that I'm effortless and she loved spending time with me.... so the past few days she has changed from being constantly flirty and talking about fucking me.. to me being flirty and she kinda responding to it but being a bit flaky.. I'm seeing her this saturday with friends but we said we would talk. I understand the change but she is still messaging me everyday but its different and her responses are not as flirty as they were.

I don't know what to do in terms of trying to pay her less attention to get her to chase me again or stop being so flirty with her. But then i think if i don't give her some attention she will go back to her ass sucking ex.

what should i do???????

There is a difference between being "not needy" (I don't know what word to use) and hard to get. Don't play hard to get, that will just make her loose interest. How come everyone finds this so hard? All you need to do is to be straight and honest and tell her what you want (her), without being needy (it's not the end of the world if she breaks up). It's hard to describe in text, but so brutally easy to demonstrate in reality.

The only reason she's mentioning that the guy wants to get back to her is to make you jealous and start chasing her. No point here, just act casual as you've used to and keep fucking her I guess.

Yeah i thought both of those things... but its still on going and she doesn't know what to choose, so I'm just gonna play it as I've played it and keep fucking her and take it from there.. cheers guys

Don't "play" it as anything. Just stop caring so fucking much. Random chick that you banged and caught oneitis. When you see her, flirt and all that and just have fun. She dug you at first because you were not worried about impressing her in any facet.

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This.

So you bought into her tactic as now you're pursuing her and she's losing interest as you're looking like every other guy out there she's encountered.

I see another angle than the others in this thread.

She wasn't using him as a jealousy tactic to get you to chase. She was using him as a "save the damsel from the unworthy boyfriend" tool, to get you to slot her in as a girlfriend. The reason she may be less flirty is because she's expecting your roles to change. She's expecting you to say "No, he's a loser, you should be MY girlfriend!"

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Really who cares, the end result is the same.

Except that you deal with it two entirely different ways.

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And play more games. Same shit, great way to create an insecure relationship.

You'll have to tell me where to find these completely straight shooting, drama free women.

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You don't, you just don't play into their games. You shut the games down and take control.

There are no drama free women. You just have to show them something more fun then drama.

Try the Straw Man Technique stickied in the mid-game section.

"he must be amazing in bed if he can make you cum more than me"