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PostPosted: Sun Aug 03, 2014 5:20 pm 
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Why do some girls seem mad first time you meet them? is it a shit test.Like i do nothing and they act mad at me.Mostly happens with bartenders but sometimes different bartenders keep giggling?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 03, 2014 5:29 pm 
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I do not know if I have experienced exactly what you are talking about but I have ran into some friends of girls with salty behavior. I keep it natural and pick on her a little. Not to the other people for the most part but to her. I hold my own mini convo with her off to the side of the group and say something like "you got a little attitude going. What's up with that?"

She'll normally deny having an attitude and try to change my perception. Full fledge opening for convo from there.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 03, 2014 5:38 pm 
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It's called a bitch shield. Often their friends will wonder why they are acting so hostile because you didn't do anything to illicit that behaviour. It is good, just talk like it's not even happening, maybe go away and come back later. Your presence has caused arousal.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2014 12:29 am 
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yeah that's what i meant sometimes i just order a drink and they're being bitchy and im not even hitting on them


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2014 12:17 pm 
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It's a bitch shield.

She's found you attractive but doesn't want to seem or feel like a slut.

That or she's up her arse about her looks. There's a girl I know that acts like she's gods gift to men. She'll act like a bitch to any guy but I've seen her get fucked by guys up alleyways and such.

The bigger the bitch shield the dirtier they are.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 06, 2014 1:39 am 
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sometimes i just order a drink and they're being bitchy and im not even hitting on them
As a manager in a bar, if the bartender is being bitchy and literally all you've done is order a drink and own a penis, it probably isn't anything to do with you. If you have started hitting on them, it's definitely a BS. Imagine how many men hit on her in a given day.

Still very poor customer service either way.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 06, 2014 3:56 am 
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If it is really busy at the bar, you don't want to engage with them for too long. While ordering drinks, make quick small talk with them to build rapport as you don't want to keep them from working. They will start to recognize you and be friendly next time you talk to them. If it's less busy, you can engage them longer.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 08, 2014 6:06 am 
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forgot to add i live in a tourist town and the bartender who had an attitude asked me if im staying at a hotel i said no then she REacted.Was she checking me for value?


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