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Hey mate I was in a similar situation only difference was it was conflicting schedules I tried a couple times to set something up, but we couldn't make it work I thought if I keep doing this I'm gonna come off as a try hard. Just my opinion, but I think you may be coming across that way.
Here's my breakdown for you you've asked her out no dice. Maybe legit, but it sounds like there's not enough comfort built. Right now before you try to set up another date you need to put that work in to build rapport/comfort. CALL her! Focus on having a strong comfort building convo don't bring up going out until that comfort is built. If she doesn't answer send a short text, but keep the power say hey I just got tired of texting all the time thought I'd give you a call instead. You must be out I'll give you a call tomorrow night.
After a couple strong convos you'll greatly decrease the odds of her flaking before I realized the power in a phone call I used text for everything and had flakes now that I call maybe 1 in 20 dates flakes, but even then they usually offer a different date. Sooner you realize the power in a phone call the better. I know a lot of girls don't like talking and would rather text, but if you're good on the phone they'll soon be craving a phone call from you and chasing you.
Hope that helps good luck!!
What sort of things should I talk about on the phone to build comfort? And which time of day should I phone her ?