So I'm a teacher, and holy shit, having a great summer off!! However this week is training for myself and other teachers that work in the same model of school.
There is this super hot girl in my class, there is a total of about 23 of us, and I'm one of 5 guys. I'm easily the youngest and best looking of these gentlemen, so I think I already have an advantage of being the guy to check out for a lot of these women. The girl I like happens to sit somewhat across from me, and we've caught each other looking at one another from time to time. I mean I think shes checking me out, but who knows?
The class is very hands on, lots of small groups and what not. I'm hoping that at some point we get to work together in a small group, or even better as a pair so I can show more of my personality and get her more interested.
The best I have been able to do so far is when she came over to my table to grab some scissors. "Whoa who said you could just take those?!" of course with a huge smile, her and the rest of the girls at her table laughed. She mentioned to the class earlier on that she taught art, so when she returned them I said "art teacher right? Of course, always making something." She smiled at me and laughed again.
I feel that like I said, if I get lucky and put into a small group with her I could work this better, but what if that doesnt happen? The class runs everyday through Friday.
My thought is if all else fails try talking to her on the last day with something like "hey we should trade lessons, I've always wanted to learn how to draw." (I teach music btw.)
Love to hear some thoughts and ideas, thanks guys!!

If i am you i will try to get number and than after 2-3 days maybe to call her on some dinner or something like that,but i am guy who never had girlfriend,so you need someone better to give you advice.
How old is she?

Don't wait for the last day, man! Classic approach anxiety...

She's standing right in front of you. You want to talk to her... but you don't. You rationalize it and say "Maybe tomorrow.... or maybe the last day I'll come up with a witty line".

Doesn't matter if you're the best looking guy there - if the second best has a bigger set of balls than you and decides to approach, then good luck with that.

Man up and just talk to her. This is not hard. This is not rocket science.

I've even itemized this for you... Do this now:

1) Write a list of at least 3 "light, playful" topics you can touch on which are relevant to your course, or relevant to your life as a teacher.

2) Memorize the list.

3) Walk over to her on a break, put your hand on her shoulder and say "I'm going to grab a coffee, want to join me?"... then see #1, and execute.

4) Get her number. Flirt via text.

5) Call when appropriate.

I wouldn't try to use teacher rhetoric when it comes time to approach her and ask her out. Which is something you shouldn't wait another second to do by the way. You have to understand that women HATE being single; I don't care what they tell you. It sucks for them. They can't have sex without being judged, they don't have any masculine energy coming into their life etc. So you have to use that understanding to your advantage when you're talking to women. That should give you more confidence.

Just approach her simply after class and say " Where are you headed after this? "

Her " Home "

" Come on, lets grab some coffee before you go "

Simple enough; you don't need complicated line and teacher jokes, but what you do need is to ACT NOW. She could ended up with a boyfriend at any moment. Strike while the iron is hot.

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Good stuff guys. Update on this, yesterday (tuesday) I got crazy lucky and was put in a group of 3 with her, worked with her all morning!! During this time I was able to display some personality, get her laughing and smiling. Even was able to run some kino, did the creative vs practical palm reading with her (my go to.) Talked to her a little on the way out too. Today was not as good though, partly cuz I felt like shit, drank too much last night. But there was no time to really talk with her much, said hello in the morning and made a comment about class towards the end of the day. Wish I was in better form, hope I didnt put myself backwards too much.
I at least have a rapport with her, she knows who I am and a bit about me and vice versa.
I really like the idea of getting coffee with her on a break, I think she would be all about it. I can def strike up another conversation with her and enjoy each others company.
I have to ask, do you guys really think its cool to ask for a number or coffee now (Thursday at this point) and not Friday? I'm not scarred of being turned down, fuck it who cares, but man that would make for an awfully awkward Friday lol.
Love the advice so far guys, more thoughts please and thanks!

Casually suggest the coffee - just like I said, above...

Then flirt and escalate while you're there. Kino... Nothing creepy.

When you're wrapping up just say "you know you're really cool - why don't you give me your number - I think we should keep in touch when this silly course is over" (or something like that).

Don't. Fucking. Wait. For. Friday.

So here's the update on this. Went in yesterday (Thursday) she was sitting at a table and I sat next to her. Did group work together all morning so that was pretty cool. Talking and what not. I told her I was gonna go outside at lunch and catch some sun. She said she would join me and she did. Before we went inside I said "you're pretty cool, we should hang out sometime after this." She said yeah def, and put her number in my phone, then had me call her so I had hers. Sweet! We worked a bit more later on as well, because we had to design lessons and were grouped based on subject matter. Arts teachers lol. She told me she was going out with a friend close by for happy hour. I mentioned how some friends were playing music in that area later on in the evening. One the way to the parking lot I asked when she was going there. She said 5 so she had to stall a bit, this was just as we had to part ways to our respective cars, and before I could say "oh lets grab a quick drink" she says "ok see you tomorrow." Damn lol.
Went home and chilled, left later to see my friends play. I was assuming she wouldnt still be around, but I'd be lying if I said I wasnt hoping. Got to the bar, hanging with some of my friends, go out for a smoke after a while and there she is on the patio. We locked eyes real quick and now it felt weird. So I went over and said hello. She was with a group, like 2 girls and some dudes. I was introduced to some of them. I told her I had to get back to my friends but told her where I was and said she should come grab a drink with me. She never did, stayed with her group. Didnt feel like going back over there would seem very cool after I made the initial approach.
Texted her this morning. "one. more. day lol." I said. "thank. god." she responded.
We were put right back into our lesson planning groups and I basically spent all day with her. I told her "sorry I couldnt really chill last night, I was with my friends and one of them is moving next month (true story.) We talked throughout the day and what not, but I just felt a little distant from her. Wasnt really feeling like she was super interested. I ran the cube on her during a break, she seemed moderately impressed. We talked mostly later in the day about dreams, the subconscious, and astrology (the unknown fascinates everybody.) We even got a little into relationships from this, and she divulged that last year she broke up with her bf of 6 years. Damn thats a long time. I asked where she was going to take me out to dinner lol, but then told her where we would go out. Tuesday I told her. "Oh I cant, have class 4 nights a week." And nothing after that. She didnt offer another time. I felt it would sound like I was begging if I offered another.
On the way out, I dont remember which came first but I said we should hang out and she said have a nice summer Does not sound like shes too interested.
I have a few feelings on this week. First, I've come a long way and even though I would really like to get with this year, big fucking deal who cares. Two, even if I dont nail it down, I'm proud of myself for seeing her on Monday and saying to myself "I'm gonna get that girl" and at least having the balls and know how to at least get her number. Three, the signs arnt really there, so what can I learn from this? Here are some things I think I may have fucked up.
-perhaps too much time spent together, as much as I wanted to hang with her it may have backfired. Especially when I sit next to her a lot the past few days, didnt seem like she was doing the same
-Not sure I handled the situation at the bar correctly. Perhaps I should have just sat down and tried to be part of their group, but I had no idea who those people were and am still trying to get better at adapting in new situations.
Maybe something else? Maybe I'm just crazy and she wants to hang? Not sure, but I'm def gonna text her a bit and still give it a shot. Nothing to lose at this point, although I'm thinking my chances arn't very good.
Any extra advice or comments on the matter is appreciated. Thanks to all the help from you guys this week!