This is my first post on these forums so bear with me.

I had a text conversation earlier today that seemed to be going really well until I think I fucked it up. Note that I'm trying to move this relationship from friend to lover... My angle was to not take her shit and act like a man. Also note that "Dan the Man" isn't another love interest in her eyes. He's waaaaay too much of a nice guy. Here's the convo:

Her: How'd the kidnapping go? haha
Me:Unsuccessful
Her: No way!
Me: Yes ma'am
(She didn't attempt to keep the conversation going as I had hoped so I did the work)
Me: We called dan on the way there and he had to refuse due to some bullshit reasons
Her: Aw man that sucksss
Me: You're tellin' me. I miss dan like you miss the summertime haha
Her: Oh my. That's a lot. When is he coming back?
Me: Tomorrow hopefully. You should come and visit him when he gets back. He'd like that. He's a sad Dan
Her: Aww may i ask what's wrong? We should have movie night tomorrow?
Me: You may. *Insert what's wrong with my friend*. And I'm not sure, I have class from 4-9 tomorrow.
Her: is 9 past your bedtime? Lol i bet dan the man will want to
Me: Listen woman, I'll go to bed whenever the hell I want haha. It depends on if dan is back tomorrow and/or if I feel like it.

(I could tell that I fucked up here by being to harsh for no reason and she wasn't replying)

Me: Don't be sour. Im just pulling your leg.
Her: I'm so sour i'm making a face and everything
Me: Tell you what, Ill make it up to you. I have something to show you tomorrow that you'll love
Her: :"
Me: I dont understand what that means so Ill guess it's a good thing
Her: That's the face Im making right now!
Me: You're going to have to describe the face a little better than that...
(she didn't reply for a few minutes)
Me: Alright, since you want to be pouty mcgee Im going to go take a shower. Ill probably talk to you tomorrow.
Her: what are you talking about bye
Me: Later!


Now, I've been friends with this girl for a while now. When I first met her I was an AFC. I said and did really stupid things that I regret doing in the past. I never understood her shit tests before, now I look out for them.

I understand that I shouldn't have been so harsh maybe? I'm not sure.

And what should I say to her tomorrow if I want to meet up with her?

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From my point of view, just from reading that and not knowing anything else, you seemed very needy. Texting her twice doens't help either. What if, during those times where she didn't reply immediately, she got preoccupied with something else for a while? If she came back seeing 2 of your messages, it gives her the impression that you were just sitting there waiting for her to respond.