I started dating a girl 2 weeks ago, and we kissed on the first date. Then again on the second and also when I bumped into her one day in town. I did escalate kino in the form of rubbing up her leg etc but without trying to be too forward.

On our second date she was going to drop me at my friends house however decided to come in and, after hearing on of her best male friends was coming to stay later, and to come back after dropping me off as he was coming back. They've been friends for years however, so I don't think he's a threat. This ended by me kissing her and saying "You are cute, but you do turn me on a bit" and then us kissing some more with some kino escalation and then me leaving.

I asked her out after work on Friday but she said she had too much work to do for exams, and so we rescheduled for Tuesday. She said she might be babysitting however, but she's gonna let me know.

Saw her yesterday, spoke briefly, she said she'd text me when she knows again. She then continued to talk to her friend as if I wasn't there, and I was only waiting for my friend (girl) to come to meet me to get food.

I haven't heard from her and the date (or lack of) is tonight, and I'm feeling depressed as shit. (I'm on meds for it) and I don't know what to do. I think I've completely fucked up. All help is appreciated guys. I genuinely have no idea what to do. If she texts to say she's busy, do I reply? Or ignore it?

You're letting this girl push you around bro.

You've gotta be the one doing the pushing otherwise she will just knock you over.

Thanks for the advice, but what do you specifically suggest I do mate?

Shall I text her and be like, "Hey, I'm not really sure you're who I thought you were. Let's not do this." Or something like that?

This is just in the paragraph that I'm working with...

Do you see that you're letting her tell you what she's going to do vs YOU telling her what she's going to do? Show some dominance man. Be a leader.

You're letting her tell you "Okay little puppy. Sit around and wait for me. I'm gonna go get fucked by some guy who's actually gonna pull the trigger and do it."

Here's an exercise for you... For the next WEEK. Don't ask ANY questions. Just make statements. Make assumptions about people. And seriously stick to it...

Once you start commanding people and telling them what to do vs. waiting for permission (like this)
or being told what to do... You'll notice a HUGE difference in the way people act towards you.

Try it... Just for one week.

Okay mate. I'll try that.

I still have had no reply from this girl, when I see her how do you suggest I play it? Obviously I won't mention her flaking on me, but shall I say "no worries, maybe we'll do something some other time."