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 Post subject: How to escalate?
PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 12:24 pm 
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I started dating a girl last week, and we kissed on the first date. Then again on the second and also when I bumped into her one day in town. I did escalate kino in the form of rubbing up her leg etc but without trying to be too forward.

On our second date she was going to drop me at my friends house however decided to come in and, after hearing on of her best male friends was coming to stay later, and to come back after dropping me off as he was coming back. They've been friends for years however, so I don't think he's a threat.

I asked her out after work on Friday but she said she had too much work to do for exams, and so we rescheduled for Tuesday. She said she might be babysitting however, but she's gonna let me know. I'm probably going to see her at some point in college tomorrow.

Do I kiss her on the cheek like she's my girlfriend or just treat her like a friend?

Also, we're going out for a meal Tuesday, so do I suggest we go back to hers and watch a film after or something?

I'm trying not to let this turn into oneitis by talking to other etc. But I often find myself questioning who I am when I'm around her. Also, I had depression last year (still do), do I mention that I had it? I feel the honesty may help our relationship. I don't know.

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 Post subject: Re: How to escalate?
PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2014 2:40 pm 
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I started dating a girl last week, and we kissed on the first date. Then again on the second and also when I bumped into her one day in town. I did escalate kino in the form of rubbing up her leg etc but without trying to be too forward.
Go ahead, be forward. She won't bite.
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On our second date she was going to drop me at my friends house however decided to come in
Should have advanced past kissing here.
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after hearing on of her best male friends was coming to stay later, and to come back after dropping me off as he was coming back. They've been friends for years however, so I don't think he's a threat.
She's only known you for two dates. He's an FWB.
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I asked her out after work on Friday but she said she had too much work to do for exams, and so we rescheduled for Tuesday. She said she might be babysitting however,
Looks like she'll flake on the date.
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Also, we're going out for a meal Tuesday, so do I suggest we go back to hers and watch a film after or something?
Only if your going to make a move.
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I'm trying not to let this turn into oneitis by talking to other etc. But I often find myself questioning who I am when I'm around her. Also, I had depression last year (still do), do I mention that I had it? I feel the honesty may help our relationship. I don't know.
No, don't tell her that whiny ass shit, man up and make a move. She is about to lose intrest.

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