First of all let me give you guys my background
I am 24 korean moved to states on 2005 so please excuse my broken english.(language barrier is my worst sticking point).
currently going to one of community college in CA.
I recently read the book "THE GAME" and watched PUA tv show and looked thru some video clips in youtube so i found this community lately.
I am a pure AFC. I meant super AFC

well I was interested one of my classmate(HB 8.5) from last semester.
she is korean too but american born korean.
but i could not talk to her for I didn't know what to say and shy.
During last semester I was getting good grade and since she was sitting diagonally, she knows I am a good student which could be DHV I guess.
she became my classmate in this semester too.
So I thought I should initiate a game even though anything goes wrong I would get experience
during lunch break she was sitting by herself outside eating lunch so i approached her my heart was beating.
i pretended to pass by closely and turned around and went to her.
(I was trying to copy an opener from the book THE GAME)

(My body position was opposite direction of her so that i could show her that i can leave anytime I was standing whole time she was seating and eating)
Me i have a question for you i need a girls opinion(with smile)

her what?(her facial expression was not good like what the heck is this guy gonna say?)

me I have a friend whose girl friend is being friend with her ex do u think is it reasonable?( I was stuttering bad for my language barrier and nervousness mixed).

her (after few seconds)are they in serious relationship?

me kinda

her (with smile) I dun noe.

me and there is another part of question, he was in her room and found her photo with her ex in her drawer is that reasonable?

her (kind of shocked) what?

me yeah when he found out he was shocked no i meant he wasn't shocked but he was like what the heck

her he should talk to her

me u meant break up?

her no just talk to her about it girls are complicated.

(in this moment i did not know what to say. later on I thought I should have said how complicated?and keep conversation go on)

me ok (stepped out of her table)

after stepped out I felt so great something was popped in my heart. However, honestly I wanted more(get laid)

What should I do now?(I don't wanna get DLV from her for initiating talking to her again)

first of all let me tell you that you are very brave man, talking about your heart beating and stuff. life is hard right? things take a lot of time sometimes. you seem uncomfortable with women in general, i recommend just being more social slowly, do this by yourself, at a pace you are comfortable with, seriously. dating is very difficult if you come from an asian family and now live in the united states. asian parents step on your balls and prevent them from growing and american culture does not do this, so you have to compete with men who actually have been allowed to think for themselves. so yea, just learn to make friends with girls how you want to, if you're thinking about sex, it's okay just to masturbate. also, you're in america now!! talk to some white girls! i know you want to

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Forget DLVs, DHVs, negs, and all that advanced crap. It wont work if u dont have the basics down. First of all you might have to accept that you and this girl may never happen. If it doesn't, then in my opinion its a good thing. I was in a similar position and had a insane obsession with a girl; i got rejected and she ended up going out with another guy i sort of know.

This lit a fire under my ass to practice game. Now that i think about it, that girl doesn't even seem that hot to me anymore and if i wanted i could go out and date better girls.

Most guys when they start off are scared of not knowing what to say or do. Obviously you won't know this since it comes with practice. Forget about routines and go completely natural; it may feel like going out naked.

Here are some steps to help you out:
1. get rid of your approach anxiety
2. try to have conversations with people in your social circle and try to expand ur social circle
3. cold approach and do some daygame (i like daygame thats why i said daygame)
4. learn the daygame model and apply it (search up krauser)
5. get an endless supply of pussy after completing 1-4