I'm really not sure what to make of this so I'm going to just put it out here. A friend of mine, who I've fooled around with while drunk but never f-closed, called me out of the blue one day. We started talking and it was cool then she started telling me how she missed her "Krimzin" and how she missed hanging out and all of that. I just kind of dismissed it at first until a couple comments that came later... she had said something that kind of pissed me off to which I replied "oh, f--- you" to which she replied "I would, but right now I'm in a committed relationship and blah blah..." and then started telling me about this "sexy new red dress" that she just got and how it showed off her nice butt and blah blah... knowing that red is my favorite color.

I know she has a boyfriend which is great, made decisions simple for me. She's in the Friend Zone. I don't mess with someone that's taken... Simple right? I've been cheated on (main reason for my going through a divorce right now) and I wouldn't wish that on anyone. But WTF is up with telling me about all that other crap that only leads thoughts to wander in one direction?

So what are the communities thoughts on this? Any advice?

If you've never fucked her then my best suspicion is that she's just looking for outside validation. Tell her to find another tool.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek