I've known this girl for some 9 months now. She friendzoned me right from the start, I tryed arranging some stuff for us to do together and she flaked repetedly. I got bored with it and accepted the friendzone.

Now all of a sudden she rings my bloody phone constantly and won't leave me alone trying to arrange stuff. We are not exactly going on dates, but we are going to the cinema, sports events, and such.

Although I think I've seen some IOI's I'm still in the friendzone. But I think the fact she took initiative and enjoys my company is at least a step in the right direction.

The thing is, my game is pretty much high risk/high reward. I go in hard, escalate fast, if the girl goes for it i f-close ASAP, if not I next her. This one I've been friends with for so long, so I guess the strong kino aproach will only freak her out.

How can I adapt my kino to do it a little bit slower and not coming off as creepy?

Do this. Its fucking gold! Cant go wrong with that! Helped me out BIG time in the past!!:

majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html

Great, great, guide!

Kudos to you and Majik.

Thanks!