Hey guys,

I met this girl at work about 2 months ago. We went to the bar with other colleagues and made out. Same night we went to her place and had a little fun. We talked everyday and two weeks later she drunk texted me to hang out, but I couldn't. Two more weeks later, we went to the bar again with more colleagues, and once again we made out and I went to her place.

We still talk almost everyday, but things aren't really progressing. I know she has been hurt in the past but I also think she is interested. However, it is really hard to tell because whenever I try to get her to hang out, she always has an excuse. I try to let her go and not talk to her, but then she reels me back in again.

People told me she may not know I am into her, so I made the mistake of telling her "I am into her, but I wish you would remove your walls", to which she said "I don't take my walls down easily, ever"

I am seeing other girls, which she doesn't know, but its nothing serious. I just like to have fun, flirt, etc. However, something about this girl keeps drawing me to her. I think its a challenge to me and I just want to see where it goes, but I don't know I could be fooling myself.

What do you guys think I should do? Do you think she is just keeping me on the side for attention until another guy comes along that she really likes or is she just scared of getting hurt?

p.s. I first thought it was because she was scared of people's opinions at work, but she recently switched jobs, so that is out.