I'm trying to game a coworker. This is my second atempt at gaming someone i have tosee on a regular basis, so i still make a lot of rookie mestakes.

With this girl, she had abusing and cheating boyfriends, and my misguided "alpha male" act did not help my case. In fact, we got along better when i droped my game and was miself.

Now she is single again and may be considering to have something with me. I say this because she has mixed reactions to kino and kinda holds back, but still wants to meet me outside work. We chat on snapchat on an almost daily basis until late in the night, although we see each other everyday, and she is always the one who initiates.

She acts kinda jealous when I hang out with other female coworkers, coment on the good looks of girls or eye-fuck random girls.

She is always saing how she can't find a decent guy and how fidelity and caring are the most important qualities for her. Since I droped my game and started complimenting her more and doing favours on the office she started reciprocating and acting more intersted.

Now, the thing is, our work envolves going through people's personal ID's and sometimes when she has the file for a girl she goes like "this one is kinda cute. You intersted? Wanna take down her name and look her up on facebook?"

She shows jealousy anytime I show interest in another girl and is always talking about fidelity. Is she testing me to see if I really want her or will cheat on her? What would you do?

You're creating multiple threads about this same girl - and about shit tests from this same girl...

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Hey man,

Sounds like you're a little young. And you're completely over thinking this whole thing.

First things first.. Drop the whole "PUA" mentality/kinos/ioi - Its cute in and all, but it was built by dorks who try and make a science out of everything. Getting with women isn't half as complicated as it is made to seem so you buy more products.

Notice what you're doing here.. You're playing this daily work "game" thats doing nothing but going in circles..

As the male you can drop the game at any moment and asked her to hang with you after her shift; that'll move things in a new direction. The first guy that decides to be a bit aggressive an ask her out will have her. Playing the jealously game is just work entertainment. If you actually want the girl; let her know and hang with her outside of the work place.

Its as easy as opening your mouth and saying so. Take action man, or she'll get with the next John doe.

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Thank you.

I'll start taking action!