I've been seeing this girl for just over a month now, some quick info;

- Neither want the label of a relationship, but we like the idea of being "together"
- Neither of us are seeing/want to see other people, but no exclusive conversation has happened
- She says things like "I like you TOO much" "I think about you all day"

Basically, she's into me. BUT, it's almost like she's gaming me. She'll show affection, interest etc.. but then completely take it away. She sometimes texts first in the morning but recently less so (despite saying how much she likes me when we're actually together, especially when drunk)

On the one hand she's completely into me, then 10 minutes later it's like we're nothing more than friends. We kiss/makeout/hold hands and all that bollocks but we have't slept together yet. She was abused so she has a lot of issues around sex, though she has hinted at it/makes sexual jokes.

How do I play this? It's like trying to pick up a pickup artist, I've never met anyone like her!

I wouldnt even talk about relationships/casual relationships until you have solved that problem above ^

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I can't see that happening anytime soon because of her issues surrounding sex. She talks to a good friend of mine about past relationships etc.. (She's basically made him her gay best friend) and he's passing on some of the things shes told him so I have less chance of fucking up. If I push for sex she'll shut me down instantly. I've kept a playful flirty/sexual vibe going between us but at the moment, I can't push it further than that or it'll do more harm than good

Always push for sex or you are wasting valuable time you could be spending meeting hotter girls.

Get rid of her she's wasting your time.

So because a girl has issues surrounding sex, that automatically makes her a waste of time? This community turns people into assholes sometimes

Don't be a bellend. This girl is clearly a time waster, playing hard to get, going hot then cold. Not worth the hassle.

A relationship with a girl doesn't mean shit until you have sex with her. That's just sensible and doesn't make me an arsehole.

I don't know what your end goal is. Relationship, or are you just trying to bang her? You need to flip it on her, and start making her an option and back off a little bit. She knows that she already has you wrapped around her finger. Honestly, it's sad that she was abused, but that's damaged goods man, and you don't want a relationship with that.

The community also has a fair share of people that don't like to hear things that they need to hear and get all defensive.

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