This just went down hours ago. My mother needed to rent a car because hers is in the shop so I took her to Hertz. She chose a car and was told they had to clean it as it had just come back. I took a walk to a clothing store at this point. On my way back a cutie was vacuuming the car my mom chose. (I wont even grade her.) I said to her: You look like you were born for that job. (I'm really working on neg.) But, because she was vacuuming and wasn't expecting me talking to her she didn't hear me. She went to turn off the vacuum and I inwardly spaz out. You know. Oh, please don't go through all that trouble. I must have looked so awkward! She turned it off and said huh? I weakly repeated the neg, almost adding that I was just kidding. She got off on it! She smiled, giggled and said Yeah, my calling in life. But, I was so unprepared at that point I just muttered Cool! and ran inside.

What tips can I get on crushing this too niceness?

Keep doing it to other girls. you won't always get such a positive response, but it'll teach you not to be scared and not outcome-dependent. Might work like a charm with one girl and not so much with another and then again with the next girl. Just keep doing it and push the envelope as far as trying to add more (in this case time in the interaction).

It's not what's said, but how it's said. When I first learned the "neg" I used it as if it was an insult, but it's not. All it really is, is a tease and/or a joke. If said in such a manner, that should be apparent to the girl and you'll get some positive responses and you don't need to tell her you're joking. She will know from the way it's said. Now, if you neg her weakly or too aggressively you should get more negative reactions from girls. Miracuously, this girl did not notice your nervousness, or simply did not care that you were nervous. Unfortunately, this is not the case for all girls and some will smell your anxiety from a mile away. Keep practicing and you'll get better at it. You'll be a pro in no time.


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