Im sure others on this forum feel the same way:

When you are in the zone/mood:
-Everything feels right, and seems to go right, any mishap is quickly discounted and shook off
-Increased confidence, very alpha male superman type feeling
-Open with ease, quickly create sexual tension/kino, and close in one form or another (number,kiss, sex)
-Usually you pull off some pretty bold shit without hesitation, and act without much thinking

When you not in the zone/mood:
-Something does not feel right about the interactions, you create unnecessary obstacles, and mishaps set you back
-No alpha male superman feeling, thus confidence at the best level
-Open haphazardly, look for the right time to open instead of just going for it, sexual tension isn't there/ kino escalation becomes problematic
-Usually the result is some timidity, hesitation, and a constant calculation of actions.


What are some solid tips to getting in the zone/mood?

-Inebriation helps occasionally, but is a double edged sword and not self sustaining.
-Similarly practicing no fap is well and good, though after getting a nut, there is a few day slump

Any practical suggestions?

Dancing and having a laugh with your friends. (Ignore the girls for a while)

Most PU guys are in PU mode, "it's your turn to open bro"

Stupid self amusing missions, like asking a girl if she can you how to get to Sesame street.

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You just have to throw yourself into the mode sometimes. Feel like you're on top of the world, be delusional if you have to. For me, I find the major difference to be how you feel that day; are you outcome dependent or not? If you are, you're more likely to have a bad time by thinking of all the things that can go wrong. If not,
You just won't care about anything.

-Elijah

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You guys have some good points. Sorry for not clarifying, I guess I was looking for something more practical like:

-good to gym before going out
-start conversations with people you see before going out
-Open a certain number of groups before attempting to find targets
-Get a energy drink
-listen to certain pump up songs
-visual having a fun night or past success

Stuff like that works for some of the guys on here

Do light weight lifting then shower and watch a bit of porn and don't masterbate. Just watch. It's pretty much the ultimate way to get yourself in the "zone." Sex is on your mind, you're full of juice and you tend not to give a fuck if you get turned down.

I just end up all needy and sexually frustrated if I were to watch porn and not fap lol

Each to their own I guess.

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That's the point, you funnel that energy into your game and focus on the prize. Gets the blood flowing and you're not pent up thinking about stupid shit you should or shouldn't do. You just do it.

Masturbate but dont come.

Simple as that. Get yourself horny and you'll effortlessly radiate swag.

The good and bad:

-I gave the porn no fap suggestion a try. The good thing is that it does get you amped, the bad thing is it gets you sexually frustrated, somewhat needy. (IMO)

What worked for me:

-Working out before going out is one of the best suggestions.

-I am fan of either 2 energy drinks/ 2 cups of coffee or 2 beers/ 2 shots. The energy makes me more lively, upbeat, and impulsive. Alcohol makes me more sociable, loose, and effusive. (Pick your poison)

-15 to 30 of mental preparation helps a lot as well. Usually I just meditate, visualize, use affirmations, or read some preselected passages from a good/up lifting book.

What I plan to try:

I going to scarp watching the porn, and just use some sexual visualizations. No fapping, but some perhaps some pocket pool.

Edited ;p

Of course I'm speaking for myself

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