Hello Guys

I am alone and shy and hard for me to make good friends or True friends who can be my WingMan and i can be their WingMan so i am wondering what advise i can get to be the best Wingman for myself or be self hunter solo.

Also i got the book mystery methods and the Game so i am going to read one book and then the next as my plan and at same time i am going to gym and i will work on some other aspects of my life to improve

1- Health
2- Wealth
3- Love

To balance my self and at same time keep my self busy

So my question is:

1- so what do you guys recommend me to do ?
2- what book do you guys recommended me to read ?

Thank

Hi Airbender,

This is a sad question for me to see, but I understand it.

If you want to improve your connections with other men, I could help you there. Be a good friend to others and you'll find that others will want to be your friend. Remember birthdays. Buy friends birthday presents; ask for favors in good taste and be thankful. Call them on the phone just to chat and listen to them. Be thoughtful, vulnerable, and continue to try. Make yourself business cards and pass them out to men after you introduce yourself and show interest in their life. (You can also read "How to Make Friends and Influence People" or "No More Mr. Nice Guy".)

The funny thing about that... Building these platonic male relationships will naturally improve your success with women.

However, if that's impossible, there is another way.

Use your sadness/depression as motivation, even anger. Let your ego take over. Read Napolean: "We are either kings or pawns of men". Listen to Lil' Wayne's lyrics. Start to tool other men who are less attractive or skilled than you. Realistically, it might even be good for you to try and play the bully rather than the nerd, or the jerk rather than the nice guy, because it will show you a different kind of extreme behavior.

You sound like you just want a hug, though, and you know the answer to your own question. I think you just want to know someone listens. Good luck.

Dont really have friends regardless so i want to be one man game i have my own best interest and no men or women or brother or sister will have my real interest and same time no i dont need hug sorry not into that. i am sure their are so many players who go solo and still mange to get women and i want to be that man that all

Thanks

Sounds like you just don't want to even learn or try fo make friends.

Ironically, meeting friends is just like seduction but with out the escalation.

Normal people make friends just by sheer exposure. Like for example...going to the gym all the time, everybody will be naturally asking each other for 'a spot' etc

Sounds like you don't have any hobbies to even make friends

Just thought I will be honest and straight forward, that this will not end well for you.

Meet some wings through the local lair, as sad as it sounds but pick up friends can be some of the most understanding guys you will ever meet since you have the same goals (you will meet some weirdos lol)

I just hope you don't turn out to be that weirdo

Goodluck

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Hello Airbender,


I used to be in the same situation as you, reading a lot of books and not many friends to depend on.
I believe the question you need to ask yourself is "Why?" what is your why?. Myself, I found a concrete goal and everything else kinda quieted down, and somehow started making REAL friends believing myself more.

If you are to solo sarg, I would say find a real goal or passion, and while pursuing it, I can't explain it... but opportunities start appearing when your not trying. Like do without doing and everything gets done. Remember, this is YOUR life, your world, everyone else is just living in it .

Sincerely,
Compass


P.S. btw,let me know what you thought of the game I just recently read it made all kind of notes and such, a real PUA Bible..

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~Compass

Hello

that what i am doing right now keeping my self busy and doing new things and friend come along cool if not that cool

i will let u know i just started reading it

Thanks