Hi guys, I need help!

I have lost my mojo. I use to be able to go on a date about 4 years ago and end up, going back to mine for hours of sweet loving... I have been on three dates and not a bit of luck... one is not interested in seeing me again, another well she is not keen, and the third (which I really like) is messing about.

I find it hard enough getting numbers now, but I didnt think the date would be an issue.

Can I please have some hints and tips on dates....

Sounds like your inner game may be fading. You have to start believing in yourself again. Get your inner game in check and things will get better.

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What happened during the 4 years between now and when you were last successful dating? Were you married, or in a long term relationship?

Game isn't a skill that you learn and that sticks with you throughout life without ever working on it. Think of it like a martial art. I quite Karate when I was 12, being just below a black belt and having done 3 years of it, I was getting bored, it didn't keep me challenged anymore cause I was fairly decent. Now, 11 years later, I probably couldn't win a fight to save my life, cause I never had brothers, or play fought with my friends, so I have no ability anymore, even though once I was able to win nearly every match I got into.

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I was in two relationships, first was love then the second was an ex for a bit of fun which turned into a long term screw up a relationship......

My inner game... what can I do??? I need like an injection of inner game??

Any ideas?

I was in two relationships, first was love then the second was an ex for a bit of fun which turned into a long term screw up a relationship......

My inner game... what can I do??? I need like an injection of inner game??

Any ideas?