Hey guys, i'm ur typical "nice" guy. After reading the game and other topics on the forum, I started to pick up a few hints here and there. I have a question, i've been seen as this nice shy guy, and if i start doing the cocky funny routine, i'm worried about how people will find this sudden change in my behaviour. example there's this girl I've always had an eye on but I never showed anything other than casual conversation(we're not even that close). What would her reaction be to C&F routines? It's not me.

Well if youve been nice and funny, you can probably hit cocky and funny quite easily. If you actually are a emo cutter with no humour and low selfesteem, the transformation is quite bigger.

I just went from niceguyfunny straight into cockyfunny and people notice, but they like the change. I didnt change my personality, i just added a little. Im still a nice guy, im just no longer a chump.

I wouldnt suggest changing your entire personality, but building it and shaping what allready exists into something abit better is a winner.

first post here, and for hte nice guy worrying about changing, good articles here-
arg, i'd have put the link, but can't for another ten posts....SOOO

google heartless bitches international. click the 'nice guys' segment, and read away.

There is nothing wrong with being nice. It's the shy you need to get away from. Being a nice guy with confidence is better than being a funny guy without.

There are schools of game in which changing your personality is paramount. There are schools in which you don't need to change at all, simply calibrate a few minor behavioral habits that are keeping you from fully realizing your potential. If you want to stay who you are and gain success with women, check out Juggler's stuff. If you think a complete overhaul is something you need, check out Mystery's stuff. For anything in between, you have a plethora of great materials at your disposal.

Decide what is right for you and your situation.

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Be open to change and experimentation. Try stuff out, see what works for you.