Hey guys, so I've got a question for yah.

So I've been seeing this girl, lets call her B, (We have mutual friends) when ever we party together. I know she likes me, immense iois, kino, ect. and a couple f closes already. I'd say we're probably fuck buddies, so I'm not sure why I'm even writing this. Maybe I'm compelled too, maybe I just hate being ignored, I'll go with the latter.

This girl, lets call her B, is into me when I'm there in person. When we party I always get strong ioi and attraction, hell she even negs me which makes it a hell of a lot more fun on my part. We've even managed to get into trouble together already, cock blocked by the game warden... lame haha. Anyways, the first night we partied together I F closed, and we had a pretty strong texting relationship after this for a week or two but then it died off.

We see each other every two weeks or so through our mutual friends, ie parties and such we all go to together. And every time we go she shows just loads of attraction towards me. The last two times I've seen her she's always been cold at the beginning, but warms up and starts coming onto me though I wasn't able to F-close these times due to poor event management on my part and her having to go home as she lives with her parents yet.

Lets wrap this up, as I hate reading long posts as much as the next guy. Every time we see each other she gives strong ioi's ect like I said, then she always ends the night with a "goodnight(:" text if we're not together and I follow it up in the morning. The texting seems to go on strong for a couple of texts but then she goes cold, and either I or her stop replying. I usually instigate a NC after this for a while.

I was just wondering what your thoughts were on this, and any advice? As this was bugging me a lot yesterday, not so much today due to two # closes;) Also our mutual friends (who's female) told me she was talking to someone else, but I played it off cool as we live two hours apart and it's summer time. Who the hell wants to be in a relationship now? But she also followed that up with a "B said she would date you, but only if you stopped smoking pot. But she also doesn't want to change you." - This is relevant as we're going to school in the same town next fall.

Thanks folks.

Edit - The real question I wanted to ask was is do you believe in over using NC in a situation like this, as I may come off uninterested and cold? My texting game is mediocre as it is, so just striving to better myself all around.

Like you said when you got two numbers that day it didn't bother you as much. I think you're looking too deeply into this. She just wants to have fun and she feels comfort in you in person because you guys have hooked up but obviously if the texting goes cold she doesn't want to take it any further than that. Forget about her. If you see her at a party next semester and bang her cool. Summertime oneitis has been going around. Be sure to drain lots of fluids and eat lots of new pussy.

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Love this. I don't really feel oneitis towards her, she's cool but I'm 20 and I'm just getting decent at pick up and I want to take it further. Don't get me wrong, I won't fight a relationship due to it, but it has to just kinda... happen.

I think it's more the fact I'm being ignored, something I have to work on no doubt. You're probably right though, comfort of past encounters. Had it planned out to get tang this summer and play it by ear next fall anyways, not a lick of a decent girl in the town I'm moving too, or so I've heard.