First date with a "friend"



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 2:05 pm 
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I've known this girl for a couple of years after meeting her in college. I had a slight crush on her when I first met her but it didn't really develop and she ended up getting with someone else in the class.

She left college shortly after they broke up and we didn't really have much contact other than seeing each other at the odd party/the odd facebook conversation.

About 6 months ago we were at the same party and ended up making out. It didn't go further than that and due to personal circumstance I didn't follow it up with anything. The "relationship" we have has been closer to distant friends rather than anything else.

We both hung out with a group of mutual friends a few weeks ago (didn't kiss her) and we've been texting etc.. ever since. About 70% of the time she initiates the texting, occasionally flirty but it's almost like I have to work at it a little to get her to flirt back, I'm pretty sure thats more her personality though than a lack of interest. She agreed to go on a date with me on Friday.

How do I play this? On the one hand she said yes to the date, on the other her personality makes it very hard to get a clear reading of where I stand.

When I meet her i'm planning on saying "Just so you know, I don't sleep with girls on the first date" just to start the sexual frame right off from the bat. When we were out last I kept saying I was a virgin and innocent (she already knows I'm not and frequently calls me a "player")

Any tips would be great! Cheers


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 2:41 pm 
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Yeah, I would start of with that intent. Just game her bro. She is clearly on it.

You don't want to be her friend. You want more. So take it. It's your reality. She lives in it.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 8:48 pm 
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How do I play this? On the one hand she said yes to the date, on the other her personality makes it very hard to get a clear reading of where I stand.

When I meet her i'm planning on saying "Just so you know, I don't sleep with girls on the first date" just to start the sexual frame right off from the bat. When we were out last I kept saying I was a virgin and innocent (she already knows I'm not and frequently calls me a "player")

Any tips would be great! Cheers
No need to make it clear where you stand now, it is all about where you will be soon :)

And no need to play this game of sexual frame. You past this phase already.


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