Hi guys! Completely new to this but I'm willing to learn/experiment

So I met these two girls a few weeks ago in a cafe. One of them is an HB8. Chatted for a while.
Got their numbers both as they said we should keep talking in spanish (I've been learning spanish
for a while and they were both Spanish, that's how I approached them. I think they liked chatting with
me a lot and thought I was cute, smart as I'm not bad with the language at all but they probably didn't
think too much of me sexually as I didn't escalate or anything). Saw them the day after during the day
but I didn't feel that they were hot for me. I felt I was turning into their best gay friend as they were talking
about girly random stuff next to me. Ouch! I left soon after so that it doesn't worsen.

I know this is no excuse but since they don't speak English, it's hard for me to be witty and stuff.. but well..
And well I was a bit too much like: 'Ohh it's exciting you speak spanish and shit'. My mistake!

Anyways, I texted the HB8 today and asked "when can I see you this week?". She replied saying Wednesday
night would work as she is going in holidays on Friday. I haven't replied yet, but I need to soon.

Question:
1/ How can I turn it around and get a close in one night? (she'll be away travelling for a couple of weeks as I said above)
2/ Should I meet her at a bar, chat, try to escalate, then head to mine for a "movie"? (knowing that would need
a 5/10 minutes walk in the other direction of downtown) or should I ask her to meet up straight at mine to
"watch a movie or something"?

Without knowing all details, I can just give you my best advice. First, you built a lot if attraction by speaking Spanish and not being Latin. I do it all the time with Spanish chicks. They think it's cute that I know a fair amount of Spanish but say it like a total white boy. If she agreed to meet, you're in a good soot. If say bar then a reason to go to your place. Movie is not necessary but is one option, have a few other options, such as a time of alcohol, an activity to do, a video to show her on the computer that you can't show her on the phone, a set of photos that she just has to see, your dog. It doesn't Mayer what it is, just that it's at your place and you two need to go there , even if just for a sec. Once you're at the place---- escalate! Important not: kiss before the pull, or else everything else is a pain in the ass.

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Chris
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