Need a little help here... Approaching is by far my weakness, but once I get past that I have little trouble. There are quite a few hotties in my stress management class (also my easiest class, I love it). I need some good openers, as I believe a few may be interested. I added two on Facebook, just so I have some people to ask about homework. I do this with all my classes, I never remember when things are due. We lay on mats in the class, and they can be moved around. Usually I get there before the 2 girls that I added, and they either take the mats next to me or move them next to me. Last class we were laying down listening to the teacher talk about something. I look over to my left and I see one girl looking at me, and then quickly look away when I make eye contact with her. I've also seen another cute girl across the room look at me a few times. Another girl that sits in front of me lives at my apartment complex, but we don't know each other. Something came up about renting apartments in class, and I said I lived at that certain complex. I saw her turn around and look at me, but I acted as though I didn't see her. I feel I am the AMOG of the class, I acted C&F as we had a group competition and I named my group "The Winning Group" and repped it as we voted. I accused the two girls next to me of cheating and that got them to laugh. I've made many of my classmates laugh, but I'm still having a hard time starting up conversation with the females. Any good openers to use in this class? Sometimes we do stretches (good stuff), but I don't want to seem like a perv. At the same time, this is where a lot of people laugh and it seems like a good time to start a convo. Any ideas? Sometimes I wish I wasn't so shy, but its tough to break.

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I don't think you need an "opener", since you are already there responding to your mentor, or whavetever you do, the point is, you already said hi to each other, even though it could have been done non-verbally without you realising it.

Instead, try to talk to them straight away, as if you already have a conversation going on, that way not only you will avoid your fearful "how-do-I-approach fear", but also you'll get the conversation going right away, and point it in the way you want it to go.

I thin a good approach would be - lean over to one of them and say something like, "This teacher gives us too much homework for this class - I'm all stressed out with the work - I'm gonna need like a stress management class or something after this".

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It'd have to be with a lot of sarcasm because the class is easier than any I've taken. She will take the homework any time within the semester, and its the easiest homework in the world. I love it compared to my other engineering classes.

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The hottest ginger you'll ever meet.

I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.

Arg, I need to stop with this shy shit. Last class I got a mat that had nothign around it. My one buddy pulled one up to the right of me, and we started shooting the shit. The girls come in and pull two mats up next to me, but I can't grow the balls to just start the conversation. Its weird, because the one with the boyfriend (info via Facebook) always pulls it right up next to me, with the other girl close behind next to her. I had the perfect oppourtunity to ask them if they did the homework (the teacher bitched at us the class before because no one did it), but I failed to do so. I guess this is just my little place to vent about my sticking points!

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The hottest ginger you'll ever meet.

I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.