Hi,
This is not really a pick up question but seeing as I get really good advice on hear, why not?
Have you ever met someone that you were so sure you were meant to be with but it just doesnt happen?
Their is this girl at uni who I, ages ago, had the biggest crush on and I did not know her properly and came on too strong to her. She said no and I decided to move on and I hit on other girls etc..
However I just can not stop dreaming about this girl. I got over her and I can say for certain that I do not like her and I do not know what I saw in her BUT I just start randomly dreaming about her for many nights in a row. In the dream I am so happy when she is their.
I see her nearly everyday at uni and it just feels weird. I am flirting with other girls and playing the field but I just feel a connection with her when she is nearby.
The more I try and avoid her the more I see her. Its like fate is toying with me.
I really really want this to stop. I cant wait for the next 8 weeks to be over so I do not ever see her again after that.

I'm not a psychologist or anything, but I'm wondering if your intense conscious dislike of her is some kind of self-defense mechanism to deal with being rejected by someone you actually do like.

Well, either way you basically have a couple choices here:
1) Try gaming her again now that you're more experienced (assuming my crazy theory was right)
2) Learn to just let it go, which you should probably be doing anyway. Read some Eckhart Tolle to help out with that.

Basically either go for her or stop letting your feelings about her (positive OR negative) affect you so much.

Actually, stop letting your feelings about her affect you no matter what.

ok thanks good answer