This situation happened with a girl I've been friends with for some time now. I thought we could be more than friends, said I was intersted she said we are just friends.

Since then, and since I can't cut off all contact, I have stoped complimenting her (and I believe she is starting to miss it), reduced my availableness and started making sure she knows I game other girls.

The thing is, she complained about some other guy she LJBF'd and who has cut her off. She complained how he just wanted to use her for sex, bla, bla, and ended with "at least you took it well and are still my friend". Unsure of what to do, I responded with a cocky "just so you know what a great guy you gave up".

But what if I had taken the chance to point out my serious intentions towards her? Maybe something like "If I like you of course I would not harm you in order to fulfill my own agenda" or "lies and manipulation are hardly a solid foundation for a good relationship" or "if I could not be your friend, how could I be more than that?"

I want her for an LTR and she has some very big trust issues, if it matters.

You clearly have oneitis on this girl. What you were doing was fine. Ignoring her, gaming others. You have to continue on doing that. Let her go man.

Look at my post on oneitis.

She's just not that into you man. Wake up. Your an emotional crouch. Stop being a douche. Move on.

As you read this you will feel anger. 'Shes different from all the it others.' No she aint! And if you think that you clearly aren't meeting enough high value women. Go back to the drawing board like me and up your game immeasurably. It's the only way forward.

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You should have tried gaming her from the beginning, now you have been friendzoned! If she sees you as a friend, then you are not a bf-material anymore. A true PUA will not even bother to spend any time anymore on this girl, but why you are so satisfied being her friend? You are so afraid of losing her, that you don't dare to speak up your mind, make a move, be angry at her. You care too much what she thinks.. actually you shouldn't care.

"at least you took it well and are still my friend", she is mocking with you. Can't you see? She is disqualifying you as a real man.

Don't waste your time on this girl, don't be her servant!