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I have recently discovered that I am kind of person who (almost always) agrees with everything and everyone. I also can not talk about much topics.. I hate this one, because I am a bad talker. I watch people who are great at talking and I try to learn from them, but it is just so hard for me.. I cant talk very well about my feelings and talk with random people. How do I fix this??
Have you asked yourself why you always agree with everyting and everyone? Is it because: (1) you don't have an own opinion? Or you never think indepently; or (2) you are just an easy-going, flexible person.
Girls think that these guys are wuss. Girls want to be lead by men with own views and opinion. Here you are loosing points...
You are a bad talker and you try to learn from others? This is not a good way. You are reactive (instead of starting a conversation, you are reacting on what someone else is saying) and try to copy others. Girls notice this very quickly. And the one that controls the frame, owns the set and the ladies....
In the end it is all about your mindset: everyone has an opinion/view, but not everyone dares to speak out. Everyone can start a conversation, but not everyone speaks freely and concerns too much what the other think. This blocks you. And this is all unnecessary.
Try this: write down what your ideas/feelings are. Then speak to ONE girl and tell her that you want to share your view. This will create bonding, since the girl appreciates that you want to be open. Then in 1 on 1 conversations you say what you have in mind. And she will give you positive feedback. And this gives you confidence for the next conversation, where you may speak to even two people. Step by step you reach your goal
