Hey guys had an interesting situation a little while ago. I was particularily happy with how I handled it and the result. I had an argument with a guy it got rather heated then I realized a real player would not get heated and let someone get under his skin. So I stepped back, and let it be. The next day guy trashed me on facebook pretty badly I was gonna tear him apart on there which wouldn't have been hard, but then I thought no a real player would be too busy with issues of actual importance to even respond to such immaturity so I didn't even respond. I also thought what would I do if a girl sent me a stupid text like this, most likely not respond as to not get sucked into an immature argument with her. Some of my friends took care of it for me, and let him know very profeesionally how immature he was being and that a 30yr old should have a higher level of maturity. Shortly after I got an email from him with a 5 paragraph apology I also apologized for what I said during the argument, and now the guy goes out of his way to try and be my friend. looking back I wish I would have caught myself before I got heated in the 1st place, but hey no one is perfect.

So moral of the story pua tactics are not only effective for picking up women, but also solving conflict.

absolutely man, this shit is so powerful and it helps in so many aspects of your life.
resolving conflict is something I hadn't thought about. but it can also help you on a professional level, for example, in business negotations, in not giving a fuck and being ready to walk away from a deal. Also if you go to a job interview, you can act confident, be loud, look the interviewer in the eye. I think the point of pick up is not (or should not) be to get girls, there is a bigger theme here.

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

Definitely man.

Good realization

When you show yourself to be cool under pressure, you act like a man and everyone will want you in their corner.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I've found that being good with women is only a fraction of what pua and being a player is all about.

The approach I take to it is all the reading I've done, videos infield practice success and failure is making me into a better more confident person that can handle anything with a cool head, and women are a reward for all the work I've put into bettering myself, and being able to apply the skills I've learned as well as the ones I already had.