| I want to thank those who commented on my last post. It was really informative. So, I've gotten better in believing in myself. I've been approaching, setting myself apart via dress and dance, I can comfortably take a girl sitting at a bar by herself looking bored and have her on the dance floor with me laughing and dancing (unless she has a friend who blocks like last weekend.)
I've closed regular, closed with a hug, closed with a kiss, etc. My text conversations range from sporadic to pretty interesting. And yet, when it try and set up 1 on 1, they pretty much either flake out, or agree and flake out, or say they have other obligations.
But like I said, everything was going fine until then. So what part am I missing? A good buddy of mine claims I'm just not creating enough comfort before I get the number. But how do I do that in such a short amount of time? I get them laughing, I get them dancing, I initiate physical contact, and all in a short amount of time (I normally have about 30 min which each approach because where I'm at, people bar hop a lot).
So my question is, what is that piece I'm missing to get them feeling comfortable enough to actually want to go out with me??
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