Hey guys, been here for a while, saw many things that have helped me over the last months so I want to open up this thread and ask for your opinions guys.
Well, I added this girl on facebook like 6 months ago (So around
October), she accepted my friend request, we started to chat, actually ... SHE initiated the conversation and she complimented me many times for many things. She's very smart, she knows how to write very interesting and exciting messages, that's why I liked that so much ... plus she is f***ing hot. So ... she is from a neartown (like 15 miles away, 15-20 min of driving maximum), but she moved to another town, 100 miles away with the college and she basically didn't come here in her hometown for ... like 5 months.
Well, we talked a lot ... she was into me, I let her "chase" me a bit, I didn't chase her too much ... so basically what I did was to make me the prize, not her, you know what I mean ... everything went very well and smooth. In december, I stopped talking to her, I mean ... we talked very little like one time at 2 weeks. Why I did this was because I simply lost my attraction for her ... don't ask why ... maybe I'm crazy, haha ... anyways, in January, she shared something on facebook, a great song ... I liked it, message her, and from there we started to talk again, she even thanked me that I didn't forget about her. Then at the middle of
January, in the period when she had exams at her college, she started sending me erotic pictures on facebook, GREAT ONES, I was litteraly popping boners here and there ... they were not porn ... just erotic, exactly what I liked. I sent her too a few here and there. This thing went for over 1 month, basically while she sent me all this stuff she was also complimenting me sometimes, and even sex "hints". I'll give you one example:
Her: I'll go to sleep, darling.
Me: Alright, I was going to take a nap in like 20 minutes also.
Her: "We sleep
"
Me: We sleep together?
Her: Noooo, I said I'm going to sleep and you are going to take a nap, I don't know anything about youuuuu.
This is exactly how it went. I hope it makes sense ... because the conversation was in Romanian ... tried to do my best to translate it, + smile faces.
Also, I want to mention that we both like old-school music, like the same movies, basically ... almost everything.
I told her from the beginning what are my intentions by the way, and she knew anyways ... and I told her I want to meet her because she attracts me too much ... something like that (again ... romanian s**t).
Also, at the beginning of
February, she finally said she come back home, but for just 3 days (after we talked like 5 months online), she was very exciting that we would meet, she even mentioned like 3-4 times before, she said something like: "I can't wait to meet you" ... or "I'm looking forward to meet you, can't wait, you are a beautiful man from all points of view".
Also, I want to mention that I asked her what she's doing on Valentine's day (before she told me she stayed 3 days), here's the conversation:
Me: What are you doing on V'day?
Her: Valentine's day? Are you kidding, right?
Me: No, I'm dead serious.
Her: When is v-day?
Me: On 14th.
Her: I won't be there anymore on 14th ...
Me: Then, I've got an idea. Let's pretend Valentine's will be on 13th.
Her: Alright, we'll do it!
Me: You know that after those exams you gotta do something to be more relaxed, right?
Her: Hmm, yeah ...
Me: Especially when you come home.
Her: Hmm, sounds ... interesting, hmm...what are you have in mind?
Me: Well, I like to be spontaneous, so we'll see then.
Her: Alright, but, monsieur, don't think of dirty things!
Then, the same night, I told her this:
Me: What are you saying, the two of us, wine night, a great place, good music? Think about it.
Now, her reaction ->
Her: Wine nighttttttt, just the two of us, aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Her: Soundssssssssssssssss !!!
(basically ... she was really excited when she heard that)
Her: Please don't get me wrong, we are both adults, right? We both know this is a sex hint.
Me: Yes. (told her the truth).
Her: At this kind of proposition I don't need time to think, don't get me wrong, but I don't do sex with a person that I don't have a stable link (**hope that's the right term ... she didn't say relationship by the way, she said something different .. I think link/connection is best for this).
She also said after that, that this doesn't change the things and she still wants to meet me.
So, on 10 February she came home, this time, I talked to her on mobile texts, sms, but only about the meetings, didn't lost time to chat on facebook. So, basically she was staying in her hometown on 10, 11, 12 february (again, her city 15-20 away from my town), she couldn't do it on 10th cause she stayed home with her parents ... and I believe that ... 5 months and she never saw her family ... so I didn't force things
. On 11th she went to another city with her dad, long distance, to buy some dogs for I don't know what ... (she's studying veterinary medicine), so she texted me on 11th, said she will come for sure on 12 february, next day, she said if I could do it until 4pm, I said yeah. But ... like 20 min later, she said if I could do it at 12pm, because ... her dad says that they gotta go to their grandparents to visit them, plus, also on the same day, she would go back to the college ... so, away from me again.
I said I can't do it at 12pm, because at 1 I gotta be at a funeral (this was real, by the way), she asked if we could do it at 11am, I said yeah. At least ... we gotta meet somehow, after 5 months of talking...right? So, I said even if it is not at 7-8pm even later, fuck that ... I want to meet her.
So, we met, great hug, kiss on the cheeks, looked into her eyes, everything ok, took her to a nice cafe-lounge place, very intimate, she loved it, we both felt great, too sad that we had just one hour ... that time went like a skyrocket. She talked a lot, I made her laugh...she felt great, she thanked me on SMS later. While we were talking, she also opened up with some things to me, like:
"For some time, I'm disgusted of a lot of men, hmm ... maybe disgusted is not the right term, but what I mean is that almost everybody who asked me from Bucharest (the college city) to go out, they invited me to the mountains, all inclusive and things like that, so what can I understand from that? They want sex. Also I don't like the direct proposals for sex if I don't have a stable link/contact with that person.
ALSO, after she said those things, she also mentioned this: "Don't worry, it is not about you here!" and she smiled after she said that.
She wanted to see me play too (but didn't have time unfortunately for that, you know why, funeral), cause I play the piano and guitar, she was really excited. Ah, by the way, when she came to my city to meet up with me, she told me: "Tell me when you come to Bucharest cause we have a lot to do and I'm waiting for you!"
Anyways, to finish this...she thanked me, also keep in mind that she took the cab from her hometown, 20 min of driving, came to see me, then she went back. She really wanted to see me, as I mentioned above, she said it many times.
On 14 february, I decided ... fuck it, she was too good ... I didn't feel so good with a women for a long time now, I sent her a sms that day, 14 feb (v day). I wrote it very nice and I can say charming ... hope that's the right term again, lol. Keep in mind that she told me that she would go out in a club with her girl friends, like 7-8 of them, just girls night, on valentine's day, you will see now why I'm telling you this.The message I sent was like this:
"Buna Andreea! Am ramas placut impresionat miercuri, ca dupa fiecare discutie de altfel, insa energia care mi-o transmiti este molipsitoare. Mi-ar fi placut sa ne vedem asta-seara, sa iesim, sa facem tot ce vine pe moment,
lucruri spontane...insa stiu ca iesi cu gasca si nu-mi place sa intervin cand nu este momentul. In schimb, as fi bucuros daca maine ai vrea sa traim pur si simplu clipa, sa ne vedem, sa fim ca doi nebuni. Esti de-acord?
"Hey Xena (this was her nickname)! I was pleasantly impressed wednesday, like after every discussion of ours, however, the energy that you transmit to me is contagious. I would've liked if we could meet tonight, to go out, to do what we feel like, spontaneous things, but I know you're going out with your friends and I don't like to come when it is not the moment. Instead, I would be glad if tomorrow you would like to live the moment, to see each other, to be like two crazy persons. You agree?"
Her: You are very cute, but I already left yesterday.
Me: I know, miss. I would come to Bucharest to see you.
Her: Don't trouble, don't get me wrong, but I don't like to spend this kind of day with the masculin part, I hope you'll understand. (she referred to valentine's day)
Me: Ok.
Then ... the next day, I went there anyways, with a friend of mine, to buy some clothes, but ... in the first plan, to meet her. I didn't tell her anything, I was just chatting with her roommate which I know for a long time, told her that maybe I'll come there soon. Nothing fancy yet. At 6pm when I arrived there, I sent a SMS to the girl I met with: "Miss, I'm in Bucharest, if you want to meet up, call me."
Guess what? No response whatsoever. Then, after 20 min, her roommate was on facebook, I messaged her, told her that I'm in Bucharest ... took a spontaneous decision to come here and I sent a SMS to that girl too, if she won't come I'll go to buy clothes anyways.
Her roommate said: "I know that now she is out with someone (didn't say girl or boy lol), and tomorrow we'll go to another city to make some photos (she's a photographer)".
At 12am, the girl I met with, sent me a message on facebook, she said she's sorry but her phone got broken that day ... (Maybe she was right ... cause she wasn't online all day, usually she was online from her mobile, etc, very often, but ... that night she just got on her laptop like every night). I told her I'm staying in Bucharest tomorrow too, if she wants to re-meet, I would be glad.
She said: "Pffff, tomorrow we'll go to another city to take some photos and I don't know how long is it gonna take and I don't want to tell you that I'm gonna come for sure and then something else happens".
I said alright...then I also mentioned that I will come to Bucharest more often, for me ... to feel good, because I really love that city (and that's real too). And ... I said fuck it ... last damn chance ... I said that the next weekend I'll be in Bucharest and I want to meet with her, I would be very glad. She said she would be glad too to meet me again!
Then we talked again after 2-3 days on facebook, again ... she shared a great song, I told her how much I liked it, then ... she gives me an erotic song: "Here's the next part
". Another sexual-kinda conversation started, a few photos etc, then we started about Bucharest places ... she started to tell me a lot of great places, and I told her: "Well, in this case, I'm gonna let you lead, because you seem to know the places, you'll know where to go!"
She said: "Of course, I will take you someplace where you'll feel like a fish in the water!
" (she said that cause I'm in Pisces zodiac - FISHES in romanian, exactly like that).
Then good night, good night ... finished the conversation. After 2 days, on wednesday, I messaged her on facebook in the morning: "Good morning miss, are you ok? Everything alright there?
"
No response. It didn't even appear that "Seen" thing, that she saw the message.
I tried to contact her 2 days later, simple message ... how is she doing, still, no response. (No "Seen" as well)
So the last message I sent her was on
21 february. Keep in mind that she was constantly active on Facebook, and once every 2-3 days, sometimes daily, she shared a photo or something like that, in the evenings. I said fuck that ... I already tried too much, I already have 2 messages that she didn't respond to, so ... I'm gonna forget about her. (BTW ... was really hard, didn't happen to me for a loooong time, but ... I thinked about this girl 24/7, you must've been in my situation at least once in your life, so ... understand me, that's why I tried many times, I tried to be a bit persistent).
I didn't message her anymore since then because I didn't wanted to look like I'm needy. I didn't give her any text, just a few likes once a few days on Facebook when she shared something I really liked, to see that I'm active, but ... still ... no message sent!
Since then I moved to more girls anyways, everything went fine, but ... like 2 weeks ago ... my mind was popping again to her, so I said I'm gonna send her a short message, to see if she responds, on 15 march: "Hey, how is it going?" (If you'll hear it in romanian, it will sound a bit "cold", it was perfect for that situation anyways, in my opinion, a short and cold message).
Still ... no response, no "Seen" thing.
Then I said again ... fuck it. But ... I really wonder if there's any chance to get her in touch with me. I still have her number, she's active constantly on SPAM too, so ... she didn't change her number, by the way.
Sorry I wrote too much, but ... I wanted to tell you as many details as possible, to share the whole story, maybe I didn't do something good ... I don't know, but I'm 100% sure that she was very interested in me from the fucking beginning ... and you can clearely see from what I wrote ...
And keep in mind again, lots of sex hints that she gave me, besides the examples I gave you above.
So, what should I do in this case? I really want to see her again ... (Don't tell me things like move to other girls, because I'm already doing this in the meantine, that's no problem, everything is ok, but I still want to see her
... maybe there's any chance/possibility).
Waiting for your opinions guys, again, sorry for this long post. Cheers from Romania!
So, again, last message I sent her was on 21 february.
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