Hey, bros. This girl has realy thrown me off balance:

Friendzoned. Flaked on 1:1, more than once. Talked about other guys. Gave me an LJBF.

BUT

Never refused some light kino, only told me to stop once, and I was pushing my luck. Never flinched when our hands "accidentally" touch. Was always up to wrestling for the remote and other types of phisical contact. Talks A LOT about sex. Always sits next to me and wants my atention in group settings. Often shares facebook posts with me and mentions me on coments (she does not do that with other people). When we hang out she always seems disturbed when I make a coment about some girl, wich is strange since she friendzoned me. Shares very personal stuff with me and always turns to me for support. We work together and she is constantly around me, calls me for the lunch break, comes by my office anytime I'm alone just to chat, etc. Even though we work together we text almost daily, she initiates 90% of the times and insists when I do not reply. Also, she flaked but sometimes hints of hanging out.

When I'm with her I feel like I'm always being tested. She dated a lot of assholes. When I first met her I was all in with my best game and it ended up driving her away. Since I stoped gaming we are actily closer together. Is she testing if I really like her or just want to fuck her? Or if I turn out to be some needy or insecure guy?

I really don't know what to do or how to proceed. This one has really thrown me off balance.

You have been friendzoned as from the beginning. Did you every escalate? Because I only read what she is doing.

'when our hands "accidentally" touch' means absolutely nothing. She is so used to your friendly kino and the gossiping/talking. You have become her bff: she shares everything with you. re-read your post and replace yourself with her female friends, and you will notice.

I think you really WANT to see that there's still hope here, but it sure doesn't sound like there is.