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I grew up only with my mother and in my childhood I was really big introvert.
Most of the time I was sitting home playing PC games all the time. I did not have friends and until 7th grade at elementary school I was an easy targed for others.. They made fun of me alot. At age 15 I started to go out a little. I had just a couple of friends and I was afraid to meet new people. Now at age 18 I have a best friend and 15-20 normal friends. I have recently realised that I was always agreeing with everything my best friend told me and he was making plans for us all most of the time. I never make plans for other people, because I dont know what to do.. I am kind of a boring person for myself but I am trying to improve.. I would like to know what you guys think about this and what should I do about myself to be more popular and funny. All i want is to be happy in life. And being popular and liked by others is the main goal in my life.
If you want to be happy you are going to have to increase your self esteem. And in order to have your self esteem high in my opinion you will need to get good competence in some area that love doing. (that way will be natural for self esteem to grow => happy as well).
Also set values for your self. Set things you step for and things you don't. Set preferences too - you don't need to agree with everything others tell or think.
Confidence increases self esteem but confidence comes from competence.
Once you get good feeling about yourself attracting women will come easy and fun thing to do.
It is all tight up together.
CHAT