Hey guys,
I'm into game for 10 month now and already had a few successes. But I have the feeling that I'm stuck at one point for a few months. During daytime I have not many problems to attract girls but in the club it's hard for me to get attraction. At the beginning of a conversation the girls seem interested but then they get bored or distracted by their friends. I have the feeling that I get too much in the interviewmode. I know asking interview questions isn't that bad when I react to their answers and don't just hop to the next question. But when I try to work with their answers I don't get much feedback from them I can work with. Do you have any advices how to get more feedback or how I can avoid to get sucked into the interviewmode?

Btw. it has nothing to do with this topic but do you know a good video/ebook about textgame?

Cheers from Austria

Can't say for sure since I'm not there with you to hear what you're saying and what signals the women are giving off, but realize that some of it may be your own anxiety and self-doubt. You may have just hit a rough patch or be in a dry spell due to chance. Remember, not every woman will be interested in you no matter how much you try. No big deal, their loss, they didn't deserve you.

Shake things up a bit, you're probably just getting burned out. Go to different venues, approach different types of women that you wouldn't have otherwise approached, take up a new hobby or simply scale back and do something else for a few days. You don't want it to start feeling like a job or a duty and I get the sense that might be the case with you. Stay in a night or two and do something else, if you feel like it - but if you do, do not let yourself start worrying and putting pressure on yourself to have immediate success the next time you go back out.

Girls at a club are there to have fun ... you have to be also having fun. If your level of energy is higher or equal then they will be more receptive to you no matter what your routine you do.

Girls can have sex with any dude. Girls go to the club to have fun. So mine as well have fun at first and then when it is time for the club to close ... they take a guy home.
- So know that between 10:30pm to 1:30am (if club closes at 2am) ... girls are their to have fun and will typically will not leave with a dude.
- Therefore, concentrate on your self ... focus on having fun ... self amuse ... fuck with girls ... fuck around with your friends ... dance ... have fun ...
- Always be self amusing ... don't look at the girl for topics ... basically just talk about whatever you want ... anything it doesn't matter what you talk about! Don't talk to her ... talk at her! Remember this ... say things that impress you, that are funny to you ... not to impress her, or make her laugh ...
- When it is 1:30am to closing time ... be more direct and find out logistics faster ... be the last dick standing (meaning be the last guy she ends up with) ...
- You can generally sense at 1:30am to closing time the SPAM changes ... girls are more flirty and sexual (buying temperature is high) compared to the beginning of the night (10:30pm) were everyone is still stifled and shy (buying temperature is low).

Sincerely,

Donston

Thanks for your answers. I know that having fun is an important factor maybe the most important factor and I have fun when I'm out. But after a night out when I'm reviewing the night I have the feeling that I mess it up because of these questions. I always try to avoid them but after a few approaches I start doing it again.

Ok then ... you are thinking to much and you have to much of an outcome ...

1) So when you approach ... immediately after you see the girl ... approach her within 3 seconds ... not stopping no hesitation ... just go!
- Even though if its a fatty, ugly, girl who puked on her self ... approach nonetheless!
- Minimize time in between sets!

2) If your interactions are messing up (aka: rejected)... then approach to mess things up (get rejected) in a creative and fun matter.
Example:
- User stupid openers like "banana, banana, banana"
- Open with out saying anything but just use hand gestures ...

Watch how your sets start to work O_o!

Sincerely,

Donston

Thanks dude you've helped me a lot!!! I went out on Friday, Saturday and Monday. Friday was pretty average for me but with less rejections. I felt a little bit sick on Saturday, but went out anyway. I fucked around while I was in the sets and tried to mess it up, but almost every set liked, how I was having fun.
My two highlights of the night: I danced with two chicks at one time and had a makeout with one of them. Then I tried to kiss the other one and she blocked. I tried it a few more times, but it didn't work and after a time I left. At the end of the night I was hitting on a milf and I could makeout with her. It was pretty easy to escalate, but she wasn't form my town and had to catch the first train back. I have her number though.
On Monday I only went out for 2 hours, no makeouts or anything special, but I got two numbers and set up 2 dates for this week.

You idiot ... You couldn't even follow a simple instruction of "getting rejected" :p ... Hehehe, I'm glad my ideas worked ^_^ for you.

Use these ideas when you have to much outcome dependence. If your getting rejected for every approach you do ... "then approach to get rejected in a fun and creative matter". It's a weird phase in pick up where you've been getting success ... and then all of a sudden you enter a phase where no interactions would work. It's because your ego enlarges from your pass success and you have massive outcome dependency.
- Train and hone this skill and they will come second nature! Watch your pick up evolve O_O!

Have fun,

Donston