long story short... a beautiful, smart, extremely bitchy dominant alpha female (my favorite) used to come to my house, submit to me, and let me introduce her to any sexual perversion, bondage, roleplay, bdsm,anything i wanted... she was 21 at the time, and new to all of it. she loved that i was giving her much more than shed ever experienced with other guys. the relationship was strictly sex and texting the days in between... about sex.

fast forward a bit, she eventually found out she wasnt the only girl and that one other girl i was seeing in particular at the time was getting more lovey dovey attention from me as opposed to just sex. so out of jealousy eventhough i was straight foward she felt played and she fell off the radar for quite some time.

now, a year later, shes re-initiated contact and we've been hanging out but she plays this game where she extremely reluctant to kiss me like i have to earn it. i push and i push and im able to get the sexuality rolling but i basically only end up with 20 seconds of head or two minutes of slow teasing jerking and then she stops and says "too bad, thats alll youre getting". shell just tease and tease....half of me loves how much of a game she makes it and half of me is getting so bottled up for her.

im able to work her up no problem but shes putting up the strongest chastity belt slut defense ive ever seen...shell say things like "feel how wet im getting through my pants" but blocks me as soon as i start to unbutton them...i cant get out of first gear here!

and with texting, she blocks a lot of my sexuality lately but still continues to hit me up each day.
how the fuck do i break through this shield of spite with this girl??? im not looking for a gf so dont suggest that

Stop acting like a little puppy begging for her pussy.

1. Ignore her texts for a day or so at a time. Let her know you're not a bitch.

2. Half of the time she wants to hangout your response should be "got stuff to do". If she asks for details be alpha about it. Tell her hanging out with a friend, if she starts asking shit like "is it a girl" just ignore the question. You have to let her know that the way she's cock teasing you turns you off and isn't acceptable, and when she does it she loses time with you.

Agree with the above 2 posters. Take all of that sexual tension and focus it on meeting new women. You can also be direct with her and ask her what she's looking for and see if its something you're willing to be involved in.

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i know i know, i currently have an on/off cycle of three other girls but this one just has me by the balls with her behavior.

ignoring her texts doesnt work ive done it in the past and she shuns me for it... i only get 2 to 3 word responses from her for the next few weeks to follow and i have to do all the work feeding the fire. it kills all the momentum. this girl is really too smart for games.

at the same time, i am looking to stay single so being upfront with her and what shes looking for might be a deal breaker for me...if she says she wants a serious relationship with a guy and she sees how i fail to give into that shell just cut me off.

So you're saying that if you don't chase after her she shuns you for it, but if you chase her like a puppy you get blue balls?

Dude, she is gaming you. She wants to fuck, but she is more interested in gaming you then sex. Get her out of your life. From now on every time she texts you you should only respond "want to come over for some dick?" and that's it. Otherwise you will remain her little celibate play thing.